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SLY
Master January 2022

Partner Pet Peeves!๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜œ

SLY, on January 11, 2021 at 2:17 PM

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Hello everyone! We all have those pesky pet peeves that just grind our gears! It's interesting to see how someone defines something as a 'pet peeve', yet another person might have no problem with it! What are some pet peeves you and your partner have? How have you dealt with them? What advice do you...

Hello everyone!

We all have those pesky pet peeves that just grind our gears! It's interesting to see how someone defines something as a 'pet peeve', yet another person might have no problem with it!

What are some pet peeves you and your partner have? How have you dealt with them? What advice do you have for couples that can't seem to get past their partner pet peeves?

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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
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    Thatโ€™s a good pet peeve! My FH does that as well lol it doesnโ€™t annoy me too bad though!
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    I love FH to death by my lord. A few of my pet peeves that I can think of off the top of my head:

    1. Always on his phone when "watching" a show/movie but refuses to let me change it
    2. Never closing any door back when he had to open it to enter/leave in the first place
    3. Tosses his clothes (from afar) in the laundry basket (which is in the closet) and leaves it on the floor if he misses
    4. Answers "I don't know" to something he can find out but chooses not to or I constantly have to remind him (things that are supposedly important to/for him)

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  • Nicole
    Devoted August 2022
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    Asking me questions to things he could easily look up or confirm as if I'm the expert and know all things. "What is the weather today?" "Do we have milk?" "Where is X thing?" I've started replying that I don't know or that he should go check!
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
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    *stares at the plate he left on the floor*

    *or the socks* (Bonus when he said to me a few weeks ago, 'can you put your clothes in your laundry bag so I can get into my closet?" Me: "...I would, but yours are on the floor.")

    Honestly, the biggest problem is that he's just used to *noise* and will start playing WHATEVER on his phone or his computer... and won't mute the TV, or ask me if I want to listen to it...

    He's gotten better, now he asks about half the time, but sometimes I do have to look at him and say, "...I have no interest in this and I'm trying to read/watch/do something. You have headphones."

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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
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    The laundry basket one gets me every time! haha!!

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  • SLY
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    Haha yeah I think I'd do the same thing as well! Just google it or check yourself lol.

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  • SLY
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    THE SOCKS. Basically just him taking his clothes off and leaving them anywhere but the laundry hamper...it's not that hard dude, just place them IN the hamper lol.

    Ugh yes that would get annoying. My FH likes to watch reaction videos and Watch MOJO videos on youtube, but then play on his phone...I've learned to just tell him "Hey, if you aren't going to watch this then I'm changing it because I don't like to watch this stuff".

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    He would just look at me and giggle like a little school girl like he didn't do anything wrong. Then it would be there for days on end if I dont pick it up or tell him to do it. He is something else, I swear lol
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  • Miya
    Dedicated August 2021
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    When my FH eats popcorn, he fills his hand and then leans his head allllllllllll the way back to eat it and LOUDLY crunches. Iโ€™m just waiting for him to choke and say I told you so. Laundry on the floor and he balls up napkins into these tight balls and leaves them everywhere. And maybe thereโ€™s something wrong with me lol, but I canโ€™t stand how he walks ๐Ÿ˜‚ he does a hop and Iโ€™m just wondering, what is wrong with his legs lol. Cute but annoying.
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  • SLY
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    Oh stop...the popcorn...hahaha! Laundry is one of mine as well! Omgosh bless it ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  • A
    VIP December 2020
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    AHHH YES lol

    This is something he has always done and we have chatted about before but now I'm just like whatever lol

    H likes to laugh at something he is watching and not explain what's so funny. Not that I'm nosy but we have similar senses of humor so what he found funny I would probably find funny also. After 5 years together it's something I've just learned to ignore but still irk's me at times.

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  • SLY
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    Haha oh gosh. Yeah my FH does that sometimes when he's on his phone. He'll laugh or say something out loud about a video or something he's reading and I'm like..."huh?". Then he doesn't respond to me hahahaha

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  • Miya
    Dedicated August 2021
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    Yehhhh, I guess I'll keep him around Smiley xd

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  • Squeezy Bean
    Devoted June 2023
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    My FH says "I don't know" to seemingly every question I have ever asked him! I refuse to believe that his mind is that blank that he's incapable of spending a few seconds to think of a reply. ๐Ÿ˜‚

    He sometimes smokes in the car, which hurts my eyes and makes me cough.

    When we talk, he will come out with the most obscure unrelated response imaginable. I will inevitably ask him what relevance it has to the topic, and half the time he will defend it despite it being irrelevant. ๐Ÿ™ˆ
    When I ask him how he is, and he gives me a weather report! ๐Ÿคฃ
    That he is so stupidly stubborn that he'd rather suffer than let me help him.
    I love him with my heart and soul, but he really can be the most frustrating person ever. ๐Ÿ˜†
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  • Alarica
    Just Said Yes March 2023
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    PUTTING HIS LAUNDRY IN MY LAUNDRY BASKET. DUDE YOU HAVE YOUR OWN BASKET LOLOLOL and the toilet seat thing ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
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  • SLY
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    Hahaha!! We share a laundry basket right now, so I don't have that problem, but that's a good one! Yes the toilet seat KILLS ME

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  • Milada
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    Do we have the same FH?! i swore only mine did this, ugggghhhh lol

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  • Milada
    Super October 2021
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    My FH leaves his socks on in the bed but takes them off in the middle of the night and it never fails, they ALWAYS end up UNDER ME.

    He just recently turned off his multiple morning alarms that only woke up ME

    Doesn't close cabinets and drawers. If he's cooking, watch your head, a cabinet will be open near-by

    If he's driving, he usually has us late somewhere.

    *but he's cute and funny so I guess these aren't that big of a deal lol*

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  • SLY
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    Hahaha oh my gosh the socks one kills me! FH will take his socks off when he's in the living room on the couch instead of just taking them off in the bedroom. One time I deep cleaned and there were like 3 pairs of socks under the couch cushions!!! Now it's just habit when I do laundry to ask him if there are any stray socks around haha!

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  • Elizabeth
    Super June 2021
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    My FH's table manners run me up a wall. He balls up his napkin as he eats with it and doesnt put it on his lap. He also uses his fingers to get food onto his fork while eating. He puts his dirty knife on the table instead of at the top of his plate. I don't think these are bad, but I was reprimanded so many times for doing them as children that I now reflexively wince when others do them.


    When we are out to dinner, I gently correct him because he asked me to help him with formal table manners, but I otherwise just say nothing. Secret pet peeve!
    FH hates when I sing along to the radio haha. He says I use a "Britney Spears" voice that's not a nice singing voice.
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