Party Planning

It's generally considered rude to host gift giving events or other parties to honor yourself. They aren't a requirement. If no one offers to host them for you, you don't have them.

Do you have other BM’s that could plan your shower or Bachelorette party? Or maybe a sister or close friend?

It is frowned upon to host your own pre-wedding parties. Anyone can offer to throw these parties for you; it doesn't have to be the MOH.

Thank you ladies

Throwing a bridal shower for yourself is kind of asking for gifts, so I’d definitely skip that 🤷🏻‍♀️
But you can definitely throw your bachelorette party. You can get your BMs or closest friends together & have a fun girls night out!

I'd say you can definitely throw a bachlorettenparty for yourself. It's not really a gift getting event.

Throw any party that doesn't require a gift. Drop hints if you want a shower to your BP. Maybe they will host one, maybe not.

Throwing a party for yourself, gifts or not, is considered rude. If no one throws you one, you don’t get one.

I probably would host 1 if you want to, not all 3. Traditionally, you would not host. But it wouldn't bother me if a bride did. We skipped an engagement party, those usually happen quickly after the engagement. My bachelorette was 2 months before & my shower was two weeks later.