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Passing gas in front of SO

evaporar, on January 4, 2015 at 9:46 PM

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Ok, so I apologize if this is a bit TMI, but...How does everyone else deal with farting in front of SO? Does anyone have the "honor" of being the stinky one in the relationship? I ask because until recently, I held in my gas when my FI was around, even though he did not. One day he asked me why I...

Ok, so I apologize if this is a bit TMI, but...How does everyone else deal with farting in front of SO? Does anyone have the "honor" of being the stinky one in the relationship?

I ask because until recently, I held in my gas when my FI was around, even though he did not. One day he asked me why I never farted in front of him, and said that I shouldn't worry about it because he wants me to be totally comfortable around him. The truth is, I was just trying to spare his nose from the pain, because I've always been a very gassy gal and my gas tends to silent but very, VERY deadly. Anyways, since then I have been more casual about letting loose, and he has been "blown away" (terrible pun intended) by my ability to clear the room. Be careful what you wish for, and all that.

So, do you and SO fart in front of each other? And if so, are you a big stinker?

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  • MrsPope
    Master September 2015
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    I delivered our child, he held my legs while I pushed. Farting? Bahahhahhaa!!

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  • FutureMrsSmith
    Super April 2016
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    We definitely do. He is the room clearer though, my goodness, they are terrible! He apparently read somewhere that smelling farts can help prevent cancer and since then, everytime he lets one loose, he tells me he's just helping me out LOL. I don't think mine could ever be as bad as his, he goes to the gym and drinks alot of protein shakes, that definitely doesn't help anything!

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  • DNA
    VIP October 2015
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    He gets so mad when I fart in front of him. It genuinely bothers him. Doesn't stop me though.

    During one of our workouts, we do jump rope, and like clock work when he is jumping for thirty seconds, every time he comes down he lets a tiny fart out. For thirty seconds. Its so funny.

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  • Munkos
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    I don't. I have, but not on purpose. I have IBS so sometimes I just can't help it. He farts a lot and I hate it lol. He stinks.

    I just don't think it's polite. I won't #2 either. But I will pee. And yes he watched me deliver our daughter, and all the gross fun things that come with and after pregnancy.

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  • Lara
    Master July 2015
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    We don't make a habit out of it, but if it happens, it's not the end of the world obviously. I kind of make it a point not to fart or #2 in front of anyone, so I'm not sure why FH would be any different. We don't #1 or #2 with the door open either. It's just the way we are.

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  • OG FMP
    Master August 2015
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    I have been with my FH for almost 10yrs and the only 3-4 times i have farted in front of him were accidentally done Lol - He on the other doesn't give a shit. He actually thinks its cute when i fart cause i never do it and our 8yr old laughs at me cause I wait for him to leave the room - When he comes back to the room she yells "Daddy, mom farted" and they both laugh at me Lol

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  • Lori
    Master June 2015
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    I would be so uncomfortable if I had to hold in my farts around FH! He accidentally let one rip early in our relationship during sex and that was the end of holding them in for either one of us!

    Also, to the people who don't like to fart in front of their SO: if you guys sleep together, sorry to tell you, but you've farted in front of each other. Everyone farts in their sleep. There's nothing you can do about it!

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  • Jovanna
    Expert May 2015
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    Ha! I've been with FH for 14ish years. I fart sometimes specifically to bother him! LMAO like right when he walks in to go to bed.....we don't hold back and I tell jim "hey, better out than in" After so many years we both can really care less. Now my son is a different story...he can clear a room! His silent bombs are deadly! (And yes, my 8 year old son calls his own farts silent bombs)! LMAO

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  • BreeCheez
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    I farted on our first date, i told him i was natural for everyone to do it. I wasnt going to hide it from him, thats silly, we are getting marred if he cant handle me farting or I cant be that comfortable with him, we will never make it. What happens if we pretend with eachother and then one day one of us has to deal with something worse than a fart? Is it time to. give up then?

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  • Genny
    Master May 2015
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    We both have no problem farting in front of each other. His are usually stinkier than mine, but when it's that time of the month I have horrible, horrible gas. I don't even remember the first time we farted in front of each other but it was many years ago.

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  • WWKatie
    Master January 2016
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    This thread is making me LOL Smiley smile

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  • KayDwitWill
    Master May 2015
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    We pass gas in front of each other all the time. Depending on the situation we would a heads up!

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  • Staci
    Master September 2014
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    We probably do more often than we should lol. There is such a thing as being TOO comfortable.

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  • L + A
    VIP May 2015
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    Hahaha I love when these threads pop up.

    Farts are fair game in our household. Mine are usually noisy, and not usually smelly. His have the capacity to clear out our 800 sq. foot condo. They're RANK. He's lucky he's cute because damn, they're bad lol.

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  • Kristen
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    Lori - i did the same thing to FH one time! the worst part was it was while i was on top! i tried to play it off but he said he felt it on his.. uhh jingle bells lol (where are the laughing so hard im crying emojis when you need them! lol)

    TMI ladies i know but oh well haha

    i usually try to hold them in when im around FH but they slip. it happens.. obviously haha FH lets them rip though bc i have no sense of smell so they dont bother me at all. hes so accustomed to farting around me he forgets were in public sometimes lol

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  • Ashley
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    I love this topic and it always amazes me how many people think farting in front of their SO is bad. I had a friend once who wouldn't even go #2 when her SO was in the house in case he heard her.

    FH started farting in front of me maybe a month into our relationship. It was hilarious. I started in front of him shortly after. By accident at first, it happened while I was taking a nap at his house after a long day at work. When I woke up he told me all about it. We laughed, I was a bit embarrassed for a minute but that was it. The rest is history. I plan on having children with this man. I am sure he is going to see and hear a lot worse then a fart.

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  • KTizzle
    Master June 2015
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    I try to leave the room anytime I have to pass gas, regardless of who's in the room. I just think it's polite. Obviously, accidents happen and I just excuse myself, but I'd rather not subject anyone to that.

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  • Lisa
    Expert September 2015
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    He doesn't hold back and neither do I, it's a normal body function.

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  • JS081615
    Super August 2015
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    All. The. Time. Hahaha love discussions like this. My while family on my mom's side is very open about their gas, so I grew up used to it. The first time I went to FH's house in high school, I walked in to his mom lighting candles and his dad cracking up on the couch, and then I got hit with the smell...I immediately knew I'd found the right guy!!

    We wake up in the morning and just laugh because we both let out all of our gas right when we wake up... It's like a symphony. We actually farted in unison yesterday and we were laughing for a good five minutes. I can't imagine how uncomfortable I would feel all the time if I didn't just let it out!

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  • Jan87
    Super August 2014
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    Yep! And neither of us feel any shame. Lol.

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