Wondering if there is anyone that has had a similar experience that might have a few words of wisdom to share. The story is that my partner and I had been together for a couple years and got engaged. Up until that time we'd had a great relationship, but not long after the engagement, things went south very suddenly and very badly. Immediately we stopped talking about getting married, and there were some moments when I thought I might need to walk away from the relationship. It's taken a while, but with the help of a good therapist, we've made tons of progress and have come to some understanding of why things happened. Thankfully we are back on a good (maybe better) track again (though continue to work with our therapist), but after everything that's happened in the last year, it's hard to know how to feel ready about moving forward again, and eventually to reclaim that excitement about getting married and planning a future together. I would never even think of moving forward if I wasn't feeling good about the relationship, but how do you reclaim that happiness and excitement and confidence that we had before all this happened?
Has anyone ever encountered a similar speedbump in their relationship, especially during a period of being engaged? Would love any advice how you got through it!