Do people actually do this? Have you ladies done this? I don't mean to start a cat fight, but I just learned over the weekend when I was talking to FMIL about the final payments, how to pay, how we are eating cup o noodles the rest of the month (not really, but its definitely a broke college student month) she disclosed some interesting news. She met with FH best man and his wife the other day, and they have been married for just over a year. They had a smallish (45 people) wedding, ceremony on the beach with the reception at the nearby beach club. She was in school at the time and took out $30,000 to pay for this wedding. This very DIY, simple wedding with no outlandish honeymoon after... She maxed out her student loans to pay for a wedding that they couldn't afford to begin with!! A part of me thought, well some people put weddings on credit cards with 10% interest or more, so 3%-6% isn't that bad, but at the same time, she'll be paying for this wedding for 10 F-ing years...