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Yardiegirl
Master September 2012

People Really Get Mad when they are NOT invited...How old are we?? SMH

Yardiegirl, on September 19, 2012 at 11:41 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 26

I can't believe that my wedding is over and I'm still getting backlash from people who were not invited. It's amazing how adults can actually have the balls to come to you or post on Facebook, asking why they weren't invited.

Is there no shame anymore??

These are people who I don't even know where they live. We don't hang out. They hardly talk to me. I see them once in a blue moon. I've never been invited to there events. They are co-workers I just met last year. I know them through other people or they are my mom's friend's children.

Someone posted on one of my pictures...that she couldn't believe I didn't invite her. Mind you, I haven't seen or heard from this woman since before she added me as a friend, 5 years ago. I don't even know where she lives or her phone number.

One lady saw another one passing by at work and she said really loud, "Were you invited?? Because I wasn't invited!"

I was like, I didn't invite a lot of people. So, you're not alone. lololol




26 Comments

Latest activity by Sydney, on September 15, 2019 at 9:04 AM
  • Mrs. S™
    Master October 2011
    Mrs. S™ ·
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    Well, you didn't invite me and we have been talking on an almost daily basis. I'm not sure what to think about that....

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  • Rachel S.
    Master September 2013
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    Bahahah I love your pictures!! People get real crazy offended over invites..I'm scared what's going to happen when people realize they aren't invited to ours

    HAHA Mrs. S- you crack me up!! But she does have a point Yardiegirl...feelings are hurt

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  • krisalicious
    Master April 2012
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    I don't get the entitlement. I don't expect to be invited to anything, you know, unless I get an INVITATION.

    I feel like these are the people raising kids who expect to get a trophy for getting last place a spelling bee.

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  • Yardiegirl
    Master September 2012
    Yardiegirl ·
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    Mrs. S. - you told me you'd be there in spirit or was that you'd be drinking spirits?

    lol

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  • H
    Master October 2013
    HalloweenBride ·
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    Seriously!?!?! I can't believe that! Sorry you have to deal with that.

    You should post all these to your FB!

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  • Yardiegirl
    Master September 2012
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    @kris - IKR!!! I can't stand when they do that to kids. What's the sense of working hard to be the best if we all get a trophy anyway???

    No one can have hurt feelings or learn a lesson anymore.

    I remember when I just couldn't go to places and I had to understand that...

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  • Mrs. S™
    Master October 2011
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    Dunno Yardie, I'm a lill' hurt over here.

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  • Yardiegirl
    Master September 2012
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    @Mrs. S - i'm hurt that you didn't invite me to your wedding last year when we didn't know each other in any way shape or form....how bout that?? huh?? Where was my invite?

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  • Shannon S (Mrs Ski)
    VIP September 2012
    Shannon S (Mrs Ski) ·
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    OMG I am going through the same thing, I just don't know how to respond , Im sorry it was private UGH and I am so sensitve and I am feeling very gulity

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  • Just Reenski
    Master December 2012
    Just Reenski ·
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    You unfriended these people from FB, right?

    Sheesh, I figure if I see comments like that from acquaintances on pictures my friends will undoubtedly post, I might say something not nice.

    People, ugh.

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  • Mrs. S™
    Master October 2011
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    I think your cat ate it.


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  • F
    Expert August 2013
    Future Mrs. C ·
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    This is why I am not inviting ANYONE other than family, a few best friends. You can not leave anyone out it seems, like at work. I was so stressed over feeling obligated over inviting anyone, when a friend from work said she wanted to go. I didn't want to leave anyone want out suddenly it turned into 30 more people, easy. Then I cancelled the wedding and reset the plans. I am so much happier having just a wedding of 70 at the very most. We can afford a catered brunch now and I feel less stressed that my strict budget wedding to be this Hollywood production, that modern weddings seem to strive for. I don't have to feel like I have to impress anyone. I want it to be elegant and nice, but I don't need somehow I barely know critiquing my wedding.

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  • Cassidy
    Super September 2013
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    I'm not looking forward to getting crap for not inviting children under the age 11 to the wedding. They need to understand the cost of things and that if their children breaks anything, we are obligated to pay for it. With our luck, the parents would start a hissy fit and refuse to pay it.

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  • J
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    Jenny B. ·
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    I was having this problem with our work friends(we work together at a restaurant). We are all a close bunch, but I don't want to invite everyone. Thank God my manager told me that because it is on a Saturday night, we can only invite 5 people from work. Gives me a great excuse why we can't invite the other 40 servers on our staff!! And 2 are in the wedding party and 1 is singing at the wedding, so we only have 2 spots! Yea!!!

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  • Maricela
    Dedicated December 2012
    Maricela ·
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    Waiting for that shoe to drop when my invites go out. All i can say is they are not contributing to the wedding pot so guess what i invite who i want and who i can afford. if i barely talk to you thrn guess what your not going! lol

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    Expert August 2013
    Future Mrs. C ·
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    A mature person does not expect ever to be invited, unless they are close family. No one should ever be upset. It is really stupid. The time and money spent should only go on those closest to you. Frankly, I would feel very awkward attending as a guest and not being close to that person. I would never expect anyone to invite me.

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  • Groomzilla
    VIP November 2012
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    I'm guessing that all of you lovely ladies sent me an invite and they all got lost in the mail...Yeah..that's it...I mean come on, who wouldn't want ME at their wedding? I'm...well...GROOMZILLA! lol.

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  • imparis79
    Devoted May 2011
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    I have this co-worker that invited a few select people from our team...but didn't invite the rest of us. I was a little hurt at first, but then i realized that we're really not friends and i didn't expect to be invited to her special day.

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  • Yardiegirl
    Master September 2012
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    I have people calling my mother and asking her why weren't they invited....THE NERVE!!

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  • Pan
    Master March 2012
    Pan ·
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    Really, where's my invite? Are you saying exclusively online casual conversations sometimes only consisting of one line doesn't mean we're BFFs just because we don't see each other in person or something? No wonder they're all upset! How dare you Yardiegirl!

    People are crazy. This is why my friends list is 68 people.

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