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Just Said Yes May 2020

Perform at Reception?

D, on February 27, 2020 at 6:18 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 10
I’m a professional dancer and am thinking about performing at my reception with some of the bridesmaids and other friends. But then I keep wondering about the time. I’ve been in weddings before and it just seems like it goes by so fast I’m wondering if I just shouldn’t perform and just try to soak in all the time I can with mingling with the guests. Any advice? Has anyone performed during their reception?

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Latest activity by Mary, on February 27, 2020 at 4:00 PM
  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
    Rebelle Fleur ·
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    If you keep it short ... 5-7minutes it won’t take up much time.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I wouldn't be concerned about time since it would likely be less than 10 minutes, but I would find it odd as a guest to watch the bride put on a show when it's what she does for a living and it has nothing to do with her marriage.

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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    Personally, I would just skip the performance. You only have one day to enjoy your wedding, why add work into it? Not to mention all the added stress of learning a routine, having the bridesmaids learn a routine, worrying about time constraints, changing clothes, etc. Plus, I find it kind of cheesy for brides and grooms to showcase their talents at their weddings. You have every other day in your life to do that. I’d just stick to being the bride & enjoying your day!
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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    I 100% agree with all of this.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I agree with you. It would seem kind of odd to me. Focus on the wedding.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Yes, time goes by so fast and some of it is a blur. Soak up the moments you can to enjoy your ceremony, moments with your spouse & guests. I’d also find it awkward as a guest.
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    I'm 4 weeks out from my wedding. My energy is drained, my mind is stressed. Everyone asks what they can do to help, but I'm at that point where I'm the only one who can do stuff. (Confirming and paying for things and running errands.)
    Choreographing a dance routine and rehearsing it with or without friends does not feel like something I want to add to my to do list at this point.
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    I agree with others that I'd probably skip this. I think it's a know your crowd issue. Personally, even if they are a professional, I find "performances" at events kind of extra.... I'd focus on being a bride not a performer at my wedding. If you and your friends are organically awesome dancers, separately and together, during the open dancing part of the reception, that's great. But as a guest I find it awkward to be asked to sit and watch the bride and/or groom "perform" something. They are already, rightfully, the center of attention for the day.

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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think that’s kind of cool ! But I agree if you think there’s too much going on and the timeline is already tight then I’d skip it. The time DOES fly by on your wedding day though
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  • Mary
    Dedicated October 2020
    Mary ·
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    I know of a very famous person who has--Lin Manuel Miranda!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KgZ4ZTTfKO8

    I'm going to disagree with everyone else and say that personally, I would LOVE to see a performance like this at a wedding. There is nothing wrong with being extra, btw.

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