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Esthela
Dedicated October 2019

Photos, self conscious

Esthela, on December 13, 2018 at 3:59 PM Posted in Community Conversations 1 15
Okay so I’m not very photogenic. Selfies I can maybe ace after 100 takes lol. I am verrrryyy very self conscious of my nose, it’s big and bulbous. I rarely like how I look in pics that someone else takes, especially if I’m smiling because my eyes look weird and to make matters worse I can’t wear my glasses for engagement/wedding pics because they turn dark in the sun. I also have a horrible side profile and I’m not trying to make anyone feel like I’m digging for attention saying all of this but honestly it’s how I feel and I feel I can talk to you all about it. I now have to go with contacts and I hate how I look in them with my big bug eyes. Maybe I’m not used to it? Either way, how did you all deal with insecurities like that? Do you love your pics?

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Latest activity by Brittany, on December 14, 2018 at 1:35 PM
  • Marieke
    Expert June 2019
    Marieke ·
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    If you hired a professional photographer, they should be able to find the right angles for you. I also hate my profile (I have no jawline) and half of the photos we have framed in our living room are of the side of my face because she actually got the lighting right and *gasp* you can tell my face from my neck! She did an excellent job.. which is why she’s a pro.

    Can you get fake frames? Or a second prescription set that aren’t transition? I assume you’ll want them for your wedding too so it may be a good investment. You shouldn’t not feel like yourself just for your pictures!
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    Devoted October 2018
    Allison ·
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    I completely understand but as long as you have a good photographer you should be fine. Just address those worried with your photographer.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    Can you get different frames that don't darken? Are you getting your makeup and hair professionally done? I'm basically depending on hair & makeup to make me feel pretty in front of the camera!

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  • Tamara
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    First of all, you are beautiful and your profile pic shows this. At the same time I completely get what you mean. I am not a fan of pics and generally hate how I look in them, but professional pictures always seem to make me look amazing so I am crossing my fingers. Choose the right photographer and you will look amazing. No worries! Smiley smile We are our own worst critics.

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  • Kodi
    Super April 2019
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    I hate my side profile soooo much lol I'm like who even is that. Also the double chin runs in my family, the skinniest family members have it. came from my grandma I think, all my aunts & uncles have it, it's not a suttle double chin either lol.. But I think we all have our insecurities, over the years I have really been practicing my self love and it's been helping me not be so insecure about my face and weight. For the glasses, try to get some new ones, eyebuydirect.com has cheap ones! & contour your nose, if you don't know how youtube it, just don't go overboard with it because sometimes people don't blend it properly, it won't change it completely but it'll help!

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  • Esthela
    Dedicated October 2019
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    Girl I have no jaw either and I think that’s why I hate the side view lol. That’s what I think, they will know how to make me look good hopefully! I was thinking about fake frames but then I have to take in consideration that lashes usually always bump my glasses if they are long and I want them to be long so I’m just stuck in between 😭
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  • Esthela
    Dedicated October 2019
    Esthela ·
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    I will thanks for the advice!
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  • Esthela
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    Yes makeup does help my self confidence a lot & I want to but then long lashes are the problem 😭
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  • Esthela
    Dedicated October 2019
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    Thank you so much! I think I chose the right photographer! I certainly hope I am my worst critic lol, at least my FH thinks I’ll look great either way!
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  • Esthela
    Dedicated October 2019
    Esthela ·
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    I know, same here, I was blessed with no jaw 😑 I have tried to practice self love and for sure I have improved but I’m just not there yet you know? I’ll try new glasses but lashes are also my problem that I just realized 😰 I think that maybe if I get contacts and wear them a few times I might be ok. & I will try that!
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  • Tamara
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    I am sure that you did choose the right photographer and they will make you LOVE yourself in those photos. Smiley smile

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  • PurdyAikey
    Super January 2019
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    Hi! Have you thought about purchassing a cheap pair of glasses with a similar frame that you are used to from somewhere like Zenni (https://www.zennioptical.com/) I actually have found so many cute glasses on there that they are now my go to, but maybe you can get some that aren't transitions! Also TALK to you photographer. A professional should help you find the angles you love!

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  • Holly
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    Totally know how you feel but I think once you see how happy you and your partner look in the photos you will be so pleased with them and hopefully won't even notice any of the insecurities that (truly) only you see. I personally don't like smiling with my teeth, anytime there's a candid photo of me laughing or smiling mouth open i'm like NOPE *delete* so I'm a little worried about looking authentic for my photos! I don't want to look uncomfortable or too posed in the photos because I'm overthinking how I'm smiling. Sometimes I seriously consider switching up which side of the altar I stand on for the wedding ceremony (brides are typically the left side, which would show my right profile - which I hate!) but i don't want to be too dramatic about it lol

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  • MrsD
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    Well you don't need to do fake lashes! They also sell short lashes that are just more full, you could buy those for her to use?

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    Master April 2019
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    Esthela, girl, you look so pretty in your profile pic!!!

    I don't feel that you're digging at all, I feel the same as you. I don't think I'm ugly, I just feel I don't photograph well lol I can't even really put a reason on why. But I am self conscious about myself in pictures. There were some pictures from our engagement shoot and our Christmas pictures that I beat myself up over. But there were some I was very pleased with.

    Maybe show your photographer what photos you think you look best in, so they can get an idea of your "better" angles, and lean toward those when photographing you at your wedding.

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