Planning a bridal shower with a small bridal party

You could reassure them you don't need anything big, fancy, or expensive. Just encourage them to keep it simple so that it isn't too much (time/money/effort) for two people. Your wedding isn't for 2 years, so there is PLENTY of time to dial back the plans.

I agree with previous poster, thats not something you need to be thinking about right now - bridal showers don't typically happen until like 2 months before the wedding. If they want to throw you a shower that is on them, but you shouldn't pay for it - it isn't something that is necessary. I think it would be kind of crappy to add more people to your bridal party to foot the bill for your shower.

Thats so great they are excited about it!! There is plenty of time for them to think and work out a budget and invite list - how many people do you think you would have?

Thats a good size, my shower (next year) so far only has 15 people on the list lol

I agree with this, I think if your mom and cousin are already complaining about this they should rethink their ideas and maybe go for a smaller get together.

I have 6 bridesmaids, but my mom and MOH (my cousin) are pretty much planning my entire bridal shower themselves, I asked another on of my bridesmaids (my best friend) if she knew anything about it and she has no idea what they're planning, and this is a friend my mom will regularly invite to family dinner before inviting me so its not for lack of knowing eachother lol.

My mom and MOH are so excited to be planning this, and talk about it together all the time (and its not for over a year) but would never dare complain to me that they're footing the bill or its too much for two people to plan cause they decided that's how its going to work. My aunt (MOH's mom and basically my second mom) told my mom that her and her daughters were going to plan my bridal shower but my mom declined and said she wanted to do it on her own dime.