How can you plan for wishy washy RSVPs? I have more than I'd like that have RSVPd yes (or in some cases, their mother RSVP'd yes for them, despite the fact that they are adults) that have since told me they don't actually know if they're coming or not. I'm getting close to final head count time and it's not just one or two people (which even if it was would still bother me, we had a really tight guest list and a pretty long "b list" and I would have loved to invite someone else in their places if they aren't going to come). Should I set a new deadline for them? I'm worried they'll just say yes again and then no show on us.
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