So I’ll try to make a long story short as possible. No one asks me about planning in the families. I’m pretty much winging everything. We are getting married October 23rd and we have 3 weekend before the big day. My fiancé and I know how important it is this month to finalize planning and our weekends are booked up especially since we both work full time. The first weekend is all about getting last decorations together. Second weekend was to meet with the pastor and to have a rehearsal dinner. The third weekend was to to a Jack/Jill bachelor/bachelorette party. And there’s reasoning behind that. We both decided we would be more comfortable celebrating with each other. A lot of the people who have asked us about planning know that celebrating everything that comes with a wedding together was important to us. Well at my bridal shower I was told by my fiancé’s sister that I shouldn’t let my fiancé do anything that day because they’re throwing a bro’s party and I could come if I want to!
Now I feel like that situation should have went much different. I should have been ASKED if we were busy or had plans or some type of involvement given that we are literally planning a wedding and it’s the weekend before we get married. My fiancé doesn’t want me to talk to them about it because he think I would cause an issue. And now I just feel like my planning is all screwed up and I was so happy before finding this out. What is anyone else’s take on this?
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