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Cassi
Expert August 2022

Planning thoughts

Cassi, on April 2, 2020 at 3:51 AM Posted in Planning 0 4
Just realized we are planning our wedding the weekend before Memorial Day 😱 hopefully this doesn’t get in the way of anyone’s plans. Does anyone recommend we set a backup date? We have not notified anyone yet of the date, we’re going to surprise them with save the date/ photos early summer😊

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Latest activity by Cassi, on April 2, 2020 at 11:44 AM
  • Alicia
    Savvy June 2021
    Alicia ·
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    Hi Cassi


    My wedding is scheduled for June 20th and I already reached out to my venue to ask for a back up date. They said they won't consider postponing until May. I think that you should come up with a back up plan in case but I definitely wouldn't surprise anyone with short notice during this difficult time. Suprising them might mean a lot of people won't show up either because they're not prepared ( not working, didn't save up money) or there is too much risk involved (COVID-19 threat). Since you haven't informed people yet I would just pick a later date now. If you're really set on your May date. Let people know as soon as possible.
    Good luck!
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    A holiday weekend wedding is fine as long as you send save the dates far enough in advance and as long as you’re fine with possibly having a higher than usual decline rate.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    I agree with PP. just give them plenty of notice. Holiday weekend weddings can be fun because people have off extra days and are more relaxed.
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  • Cassi
    Expert August 2022
    Cassi ·
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    Thanks so much!! I was unclear and meant may of next year (2021) 🤦🏽‍♀️ But still very good advice, thank you! I have though picked a wedding date for the weekend before the holiday, I did not realize😳 I’m worried about people not being Able to make we are going to send save the dates this summer to give everyone plenty of time notice.
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