I'm not having any bridesmaids and my wedding is only going to be 30 immediate family members. I'd like to celebrate with the ladies and my friends before the big day.
I was thinking of doing a low key spa mani party & dinner and inviting my lady friends.
Other blog/forum posts are supercritical about planning a party in your honor and how it should never be done. I think that's BS - people plan their own birthday parties all the time. Plus I know what I want and I feel like COVID has thrown all the rule books out the window.
Is there another way to involve my friends in the wedding celebrations even though they are not going to be invited to the wedding itself? (they understand my decision to have a small wedding)
How tacky is it to throw your own bach party? (financial commitment would be minimal or nothing)