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J. Holland
Bridal Shower, one of the most anxiety producing moments of my life
J. Holland, on June 27, 2010 at 1:53 PM

So yesterday was my Bridal Shower and I was having anxiety attacks about it for the week leading up to the shower. I do not do well with being the center of attention with that many people. I've never...

Mackenzie, Aug 23, 2022 17 1,795
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11 days out
EGD, on August 22, 2022 at 11:04 AM

We are 11 days out, we get married next Friday and I am at the end of my rope. FH's parents keep saying they're going to give us money for the wedding, we haven't seen it yet, FH keeps saying "if they...

Grace, Aug 22, 2022 12 231 1
Deena
Day of Wedding Timeline….help!! 🫠
Deena, on August 17, 2022 at 3:17 PM

How do I go about starting and thinking of the times for the wedding day of timeline..? What all needs to go on this..? I’m starting to get overwhelmed with all the things I need to plan and keep in...

Kelly, Aug 22, 2022 7 205
Adriannah
Wedding Day Timeline Help
Adriannah, on August 21, 2022 at 4:02 AM

Hi! I am in need of help with my wedding day timeline! We have access to the rooms to get ready starting at 9am and we can start decorating at 10am. Our Ceremony starts at 3pm and we want to do a...

Erin, Aug 22, 2022 4 96
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Couples getting married on October 21, 2022
Katie, on July 31, 2021 at 3:28 PM

Hello! How many are there of us 10/21/22? Did you find your date first or venue? We always loved the idea of a Friday wedding! One more day in the weekend to recuperate for our guests!

Kristina, Aug 22, 2022 10 118 4
Lizandra
Bilingual wedding — i want to know your plans
Lizandra, on August 22, 2022 at 11:18 AM

Happy Monday! My fiancé is British and I am Cuban. My mother speaks not a lick of English and his family speaks no Spanish. We are having a bilingual ceremony and mixing Hispanic music and all the...

Lizandra, Aug 22, 2022 2 67
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rsvp return address
Angelica, on August 21, 2022 at 4:43 AM

I didn’t think twice when putt got my future last name of my fiancé on the rsvp. Listed “Future Fersts” and now I am nervous the won’t come back in the mail. I am being crazy or do you think they will...

Paige, Aug 22, 2022 10 155 1
Lindsay
My bridesmaids ruined everything
Lindsay, on August 21, 2022 at 8:32 PM

So my bachelorette party was canceled, a bridesmaid is not my friend anymore, and the rest except one haven’t wanted to do a thing. Do I dismantle the party? I feel like they have all made things...

Sloane, Aug 22, 2022 4 431
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How do you start planning your wedding
Nataly, on December 21, 2021 at 3:07 PM

In March it’ll be 1 year since we got engaged and we haven’t planned anything. I’m finally ready to start planning more serious but I don’t know where to start. There’s so much to do like figuring out...

Joswatson1, Aug 22, 2022 11 434 14
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Brunch / Daytime weddings
Ggreer14, on August 21, 2022 at 8:22 PM

Hi all 💕 Have you ever been to a brunch and/or daytime wedding? What did you think? Was it just as fun as a nighttime one? Did people dance during the daytime? Do you as a guest feel like 12:30 is too...

Grace, Aug 22, 2022 6 167 1
Makenna
To Elope or To Not Elope
Makenna, on July 22, 2022 at 9:18 AM

Hi! My fiancé and I keep trying to decide if we should elope or not. We are trying to buy a house and get married. He’s in the military for now, so the wedding won’t be until next year at the...

Makenna, Aug 21, 2022 19 247
Virginia
Friday vs Sunday Weddings
Virginia, on August 31, 2021 at 11:44 PM

One of the biggest things I’m running into is finding a venue with a Saturday open. So many have options for Friday and Sunday. What are the pros and cons? Which do you think would work better if most...

Tarlan, Aug 21, 2022 39 4,372 4
Mrs.evans
Count Down to D-day
Mrs.evans, on August 19, 2022 at 8:43 PM

Hey to all of ladies and Gents who is on there count down like. Today makes it 71 days and counting now we are booking other things. We also have to our transportation done the best man will be...

Mrs.evans, Aug 20, 2022 10 154 1
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Online vs. mail in Rsvps
Sarah, on July 28, 2022 at 11:34 AM

Curious what you all are doing for RSVPs and if you were a guest what would you prefer? We decided to do only online RSVPs for multiple reasons. Saves money on postage and stationery, don't risk...

Connie, Aug 20, 2022 17 1,791 4
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Best and worst favors and why?
Mimimushrooms, on August 8, 2022 at 4:32 PM

What were the best wedding favors you ever received and why? And which one was the worst? I had a lively discussion about this with my mother and it got me curious. My personal top three are: 1)...

Connie, Aug 20, 2022 19 1,087 2
Amber
Save the Date vs Wedding Invite Timing
Amber, on August 16, 2022 at 10:24 AM

Hiiii everyone! I am getting married 4/28/23 and feels like it is right around the corner. We will be taking engagement pics next month (maybe lol). But I am torn on if and when to send out Save the...

Laura, Aug 20, 2022 15 208
Mariah
Timeline - Day of
Mariah, on August 19, 2022 at 10:13 AM

Please share your timeline for the day of! I am interested to see different perspectives (i.e., getting ready, pictures before ceremony, first dances, dinner, dancing, etc)

Katie, Aug 20, 2022 3 116 2
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Venue Proposal: Anxiously waiting…
Jessa, on August 18, 2022 at 5:45 PM

So my fiancé and I have been searching and touring venues throughout the last month. 3 weeks ago we toured this one venue that we fell in love with. We actually thought we were set on a previous...

Alex, Aug 19, 2022 8 197
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What to do? How to plan a wedding?
Jennifer, on August 18, 2022 at 10:18 AM

I have never even really had a dream wedding or ever been married or even engaged how do I plan my wedding

Jacks, Aug 19, 2022 4 82 1
Leah
i need help
Leah, on August 18, 2022 at 1:42 PM

Do to life events our medium size (50-70) venue situated wedding has now become a small back yard wedding. Prior to events happening I had ordered my save the dates. But now with it being a small back...

Portia, Aug 19, 2022 9 280 1
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