Discussions from Planning

With my invitations I sent RSVP cards but instead of them having to mail them back I made up a wedding email just for RSVPs .. well I’ve gotten some replies for our wedding so far … should I respond...

Ok I need advise and help. Sorry for the long post but it’s a lot of crap this venue is trying to pull. If you could get thru it and have input it would be much appreciated. Backstory: So due to COVID...

Hi all, I’d really appreciate some words of advice. I’m getting married in a few weeks and my maid of honour is a close friend of about 20 years (since we were teenagers). She’s never been the jealous...

Hello lovely people! When I booked my makeup artist a year ago she said she would reach out about 2 months before my wedding to schedule a trial for about a month before. I hadn't heard anything and I...

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I have our tasting scheduled for later this month with our venue. Is it expected that we include our wedding planner at our tasting? If so, what are the reasons for having...

How long in advance would you send save the dates for a destination wedding ? We are thinking about doing aruba and traveling there from New Jersey! We do have a date of October 26 2024 picked out!

So I really have no idea what type of dress I want. Maybe some but I flip flop a lot. I really want to try to go to a shop or two myself just to get an idea of what I like and don’t like and then set...

So we live in Minnesota and we have found a reception like, problem is our first choice date is taken which was May 20th 2022. So our options are May 6th, 13th, or 27th. The 27th is Memorial Day...

We're trying to figure out transportation for our wedding and I was wondering if anyone has ever used bus.com? They gave us the lowest quote (most places were quoting ~$4k and they quoted be...

Help! Indian-western fusion wedding in May 2023 - Indian in-laws want to host a pre-wedding party at home, the night before the ceremony which is also at home. Our wedding planner has said we could...

So I sent out about 50 wedding invitations… in total are guest list is about 105 people … I’ve only got RSVPs from 9 households and my deadline is August 6th 😳 Maybe just waiting last minute to RSVP...

I have been thinking and looking for Bm's gifts. I found a site. (Prettyrobes.com) found some robes at great prices I had to get a total of 8 personalized robes, with slippers. What are some other...

Do we tip the MUA/Hair stylist, photographer, DJ etc? And if so how much ?

Hi everyone! I have a question. I am getting married Nov 5, 2022. When is it appropriate to send out the invitations and to ask rsvp date.

Is it a bad idea to have a reception on Labor Day weekend? We are eloping but want to have reception afterwards and Labor Day is the only time until October my parents can be there. Thanks for your...

I am starting planning for my wedding. Me and my partner don't have many friends or family so our wedding would be at most 20 people so a very small wedding. Would it be wrong of me to just book a...

So my fiancé thinks that we should have the wedding in the backyard my thing is I don’t really think that that’s necessarily cheaper in anyway so if I’m going to put out something that much I’d rather...

Where would you start with planning a wedding ? Should I do the harder planning first ? Like the venue, cake, guest list. What would be the best way to not get overwhelmed and stressed out. We haven’t...