Discussions from Planning

Who is planning their wedding without a wedding planner?

We have 66 days left I’m so excited

Me and my fiancé want cash than getting gifts for our wedding.... Would it be strange or off-putting to have a Gofundme account? Does it say "HEY WE WANT CASH?" . I want to say we want cash than...

I’m trying to find the perfect burnt orange bridesmaid dress. I think I have it narrowed down to Paprika from Azazie or Cinnamon from Kennedy Blue…did anyone use these colors in their wedding and have...

What’s a good estimate for foods and drinks when getting ready. There will be 10 people total (7 wedding party + 3 makeup/hair artists). I’m thinking of just getting like finger sandwiches and silver...

I am getting discouraged! This is my first time getting married and I had expectations that are not being met. I feel like everything I envisioned for my big day is dismissed by my fiancé and my mom...

Background: my fiancé and I met at a library so I have my heart set on getting married at the local library and doing a literary themed wedding (all other libraries within 50 miles of us do not host...

Free, easy to use documents or powerpoints to stay organized??

Our wedding date is Nov 12, 2023 because it's on a Sunday we're saving between 2-5k. My Dad's birthday is Nov 23, 11+12=23 and the year is 2023 so it was a numbers thing for me. The ceremony will be...

Hi lovelies! My family is from Tennessee, but I am living in Berlin, Germany and can't quite figure out what to do in regards to our wedding registry. Does anyone else live abroad and have some...

Happy to be joining the winter wedding crew! 🙌🏼👰🏻‍♀️🤍💍 12/2/22

Hello! I am getting married in one week and wanted to reach out to see what last minute details you dealt with in the last few days before your wedding (or are planning on taking care of a week before...

Hi Ladies and Gents! We’re so glad we’re not the only ones who have decided to get married over Thanksgiving weekend. Have you had any difficulties planning around Thanksgiving? We are doing the...

I'm struggling with what to do for the kids tabor! Activities? Snacks? What are you all planning?

My caterer kinda noted that she cuts food portions if lots of children (they don't eat as much). Not sure i like this thought esp if I'm paying for headcount. If I have 90 wedding guests and 25 are...

I am on a tight budget and don’t want to spend money on unnecessary items. For example, gifts for the bridal party, gifts for the guests, a wedding cake no one will eat, and extra paper that will be...

Thinking about throwing an engagement party. My friend was going to do this for us but then she was hurt is a car accident. I've come around to liking the idea but I don't know who to invite and who...

Would you provide breakfast and/ or lunch on your wedding day? I figure the wedding party won't eat until dinner. Some of us are staying onsite at venue. There's continental breakfast provided. Thanks...

So here is my situation: I didn't want a bridal shower because my home is already cluttered with things and I wanted to put all my money into the wedding, not another party. My mom and aunts though...