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![Michelle](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/0/4/7/utbp_35478047.jpg?r=21629)
What stood out to you as most memorable? The guest experience, the food, the vibe? The people attending?
Our wedding is in the Fall (my profile says May but I can't find how to change it -- but my real wedding is in November), and while we still have time to plan for things, I wanted to get feedback on...
![Shannalitisha](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/7/9/9/1/utbp_42007991.jpg?r=74901)
So we are getting married in 2026 around August. Has anyone ever been married or is getting married at The Manor on Mountain View?
Hello! I am very curious, how many songs do you plan on using for the ceremony that includes people walking down the aisle. I have a very specific song I want to use to walk down the aisle to. Not...
Hello I am looking for a seating chart where I can set fit my guest list
Last time we tried this , I tried to book it and he tried to plan and pay for it ! There was chaos in the sex entertainment industry so we got …sneaky. I planned it and he called and booked...
![Kaitlyn73H](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/8/1/4/utbp_40601814.jpg?r=33083)
We bought our wedding bands yesterday! I ended up with a 3 mm rose gold mini cigar band. I am obsessed! Does anyone else have a cigar band, or just share your wedding bands! I love seeing what other...
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Is it normal for a venue to include "optional gratuity to venue staff for planning/execution" on the contract? Even though it says optional, it sounds like they're expecting at least 18%. I understand...
![Michelle](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/0/4/7/utbp_35478047.jpg?r=21629)
What are you covering as hosts outside of the food and beverages at the reception? What is common in your circle vs what you are choosing to do? Traditionally, in many circles, it was and still is...
![Teresa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/7/5/3/utbp_39923753.jpg?r=58374)
We are 43 days out from our big day and trying to get people to RSVP is like pulling teeth with a pair of tweezers. Deadline was Monday, April 1, 2024. With a 2 week extension of Monday, April 15,...
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I’ve been trying to come up with ideas and search Pinterest and google, but I keep finding the same generic decor and reception ideas and want to pick some other peoples’ minds for ideas! To sum it...
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My fiancé is studying PT and has over 250k in student loans and accruing 40 bucks in interest a day.. Currently he is planning a 30k wedding. My parents gifted us 12k for a wedding gift(honeymoon...
I would like to have my ceremony at minimum a day before our reception or a few weeks before. I don’t want the pressure of having both the same day. If anyone else has done this, I would love to know...
I was just proposed three days ago!!! I would like a reception outdoors near a beach, music, and food. Any recommendations?
![Sarah](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/4/1/1/utbp_40840411.jpg?r=78927)
Our invites have gone out and our friends and family have verbally told us their plans but have failed to "follow the directions" of RSVPing on our website. It's a pain for us to track this...
My fiance saw a reddit story where a couple was sued by the venue because her guest tried to sue the venue for tripping. Since then, he got worried that we need wedding and liability insurance first...
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Just curious if anyone else has
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My Daughter is getting married in September my husband is walking her down the aisle and then going to be the officiant. The best man is the grooms father. The grooms parents are separated so we are...
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