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Michelle
Best wedding you attended as a guest?
Michelle, on April 8, 2024 at 8:27 PM

What stood out to you as most memorable? The guest experience, the food, the vibe? The people attending?

Jasmine S., Apr 9, 2024 1 52
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Am i missing anything for guests?
Dani, on April 9, 2024 at 1:47 PM

Our wedding is in the Fall (my profile says May but I can't find how to change it -- but my real wedding is in November), and while we still have time to plan for things, I wanted to get feedback on...

Dani, Apr 9, 2024 58
Shannalitisha
The venue
Shannalitisha, on April 9, 2024 at 11:25 AM

So we are getting married in 2026 around August. Has anyone ever been married or is getting married at The Manor on Mountain View?

Shannalitisha, Apr 9, 2024 41
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Wedding Procession Ceremony
Genevieve, on April 3, 2024 at 11:54 AM

Hello! I am very curious, how many songs do you plan on using for the ceremony that includes people walking down the aisle. I have a very specific song I want to use to walk down the aisle to. Not...

Laura, Apr 9, 2024 5 77
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Seating chart
Janece, on April 4, 2024 at 8:17 AM

Hello I am looking for a seating chart where I can set fit my guest list

Laura, Apr 9, 2024 1 43
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The wedding is paid for!
Miss_Vixen00, on April 9, 2024 at 8:56 AM

Last time we tried this , I tried to book it and he tried to plan and pay for it ! There was chaos in the sex entertainment industry so we got …sneaky. I planned it and he called and booked...

Miss_Vixen00, Apr 9, 2024 60
Kaitlyn73H
Wedding bands!
Kaitlyn73H, on April 7, 2024 at 7:58 PM

We bought our wedding bands yesterday! I ended up with a 3 mm rose gold mini cigar band. I am obsessed! Does anyone else have a cigar band, or just share your wedding bands! I love seeing what other...

Andrea, Apr 8, 2024 2 188
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Venue gratuity
Liz, on April 8, 2024 at 2:10 PM

Is it normal for a venue to include "optional gratuity to venue staff for planning/execution" on the contract? Even though it says optional, it sounds like they're expecting at least 18%. I understand...

Dani, Apr 8, 2024 2 59
Michelle
Covering guest expenses?
Michelle, on April 7, 2024 at 6:28 PM

What are you covering as hosts outside of the food and beverages at the reception? What is common in your circle vs what you are choosing to do? Traditionally, in many circles, it was and still is...

CM, Apr 8, 2024 2 89
Teresa
rsvp Rant....
Teresa, on April 4, 2024 at 8:38 PM

We are 43 days out from our big day and trying to get people to RSVP is like pulling teeth with a pair of tweezers. Deadline was Monday, April 1, 2024. With a 2 week extension of Monday, April 15,...

Teresa, Apr 8, 2024 6 308
Emilyt5258
Mixing Late-victorian Theme With Geek Elements?
Emilyt5258, on April 4, 2024 at 5:16 PM

I’ve been trying to come up with ideas and search Pinterest and google, but I keep finding the same generic decor and reception ideas and want to pick some other peoples’ minds for ideas! To sum it...

Samantha, Apr 8, 2024 6 246 1
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Wedding and expenses
Nathan, on April 4, 2024 at 11:30 PM

My fiancé is studying PT and has over 250k in student loans and accruing 40 bucks in interest a day.. Currently he is planning a 30k wedding. My parents gifted us 12k for a wedding gift(honeymoon...

Mrs. Johnson, Apr 7, 2024 4 152
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Ceremony and reception different days?
Catalinaa, on February 11, 2024 at 4:44 AM

I would like to have my ceremony at minimum a day before our reception or a few weeks before. I don’t want the pressure of having both the same day. If anyone else has done this, I would love to know...

Jasmine S., Apr 6, 2024 10 245
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Is a wedding for 8000.00 possible?
Sonia, on August 5, 2011 at 7:02 PM

I was just proposed three days ago!!! I would like a reception outdoors near a beach, music, and food. Any recommendations?

Theresa, Apr 5, 2024 29 399
Sarah
Rsvps - how to get guests to respond!
Sarah, on March 30, 2024 at 8:47 AM

Our invites have gone out and our friends and family have verbally told us their plans but have failed to "follow the directions" of RSVPing on our website. It's a pain for us to track this...

Teresa, Apr 4, 2024 10 99
Traci
Cake
Traci, on March 28, 2024 at 10:47 PM

Just about to start looking into our wedding cake. I really don't want a big cake. Did you guys have a lot of cake left over.I want a small cake and fondue fountain. Oh... the joys of planning 🙂...

Teresa, Apr 4, 2024 14 232
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Insurance first?
Lana, on September 24, 2023 at 2:12 AM

My fiance saw a reddit story where a couple was sued by the venue because her guest tried to sue the venue for tripping. Since then, he got worried that we need wedding and liability insurance first...

Teresa, Apr 4, 2024 5 154
Sharon
Couples getting married on August 23, 2025
Sharon, on February 10, 2024 at 2:33 PM

Just curious if anyone else has

Sharon, Apr 4, 2024 4 98
Sue
Wedding program
Sue, on April 4, 2024 at 12:57 PM

My Daughter is getting married in September my husband is walking her down the aisle and then going to be the officiant. The best man is the grooms father. The grooms parents are separated so we are...

Sue, Apr 4, 2024 4 184
Tiquida
I'm Trying To Get Free Wedding Sample Invitation Mailed Out
Tiquida, on March 30, 2024 at 1:11 AM

Hello I'm Trying To Get Free Wedding Invitation Samples Mailed Out To Me!

Michael, Apr 4, 2024 4 59
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