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please disregard my typo above lol *transportation* This may be a stupid question, but for brides that ARE NOT getting ready at the hotel they'll be staying at their wedding night, how do you plan on...
![Shan](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/2/8/5/utbp_33033285.jpg?r=18840)
Hello! I have been engaged since 2020 and am having some difficult moments when it comes to the guest list. Obviously, we have only made a rough draft of the guest list with the MUST HAVES like family...
![Courtney](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/0/2/7/utbp_37533027.jpg?r=76175)
What websites have you used for RSVP? Does it send the invites via email or phone number?
![Elizabeth](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/0/2/3/utbp_33463023.jpg?r=96644)
Have any of you decided to have a small ceremony, but postpone your reception due to covid? This is what I'm thinking might be the best option for me and my FH. He wanted a big wedding, but I want a...
![Grace](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/9/2/9/utbp_32476929.jpg?r=30603)
My future husband is set on getting married on February 22, 2022 (it's a Two's-day). I love the idea of the pun and it is one of VERY few things he has asked for so far so, folks, we are getting...
My fiancé and I have always known we want to get married in San Luis Obispo, CA (we currently live in Los Angeles) because that's where we both went to college & it's an extremely special,...
![Lynne](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/1/8/7/utbp_9550187.jpg?r=26971)
My big day is August 6th of this year. We are in Washington state. How is planning going? Where are my twins?
![Alyssa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/8/1/5/utbp_32143815.jpg?r=62001)
Hi everyone! I'm wanting to cancel my contract with my original wedding photographer and I'm not a confrontational person, so I'm trying to figure out how to word the email gently. We had to move our...
Hey yall! I’m having so much stress over this. I put together all of our invites (wax seal on vellum) and brought one to the post office a few weeks ago to ask about postage. The woman weighed it...
![Avary](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/9/3/0/3/utbp_33079303.jpg?r=22953)
Is anyone else trying to put together a military wedding?
![Hannah](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/9/7/2/7/utbp_36629727.jpg?r=32473)
6/19/22 Date twins or anyone with insight... Is anyone concerned about our wedding date being ON fathers day?! I chose the date because it worked for OUR schedule. I didn’t even realize until a vendor...
![mimitrue](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/5/8/7/utbp_4371587.jpg?r=12191093)
Looking for budget friendly good vodka to buy for wedding reception. I don't drink vodka enough to know good from bad so I want to make sure we get good vodka but for a good price because budget isn't...
![Lynne](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/5/9/5/utbp_37790595.jpg?r=92695)
Went and put the down payment on our venue today! Everything is now starting to seem so real.
How many hors doeuvres should we have for a 50 guest wedding? We will have three choices, but I'm not sure how many of each piece we should order. Thanks
![Samantha](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/2/6/0/9/utbp_36762609.jpg?r=12304)
We are doing just an immediate family wedding at our home with about 20 people. Not sure what to have for dinner! Most of them are partiers so they won't want to have a super heavy dinner. Something...
Is it too soon to start planning? I’ve reached out to a few vendors and some are looking for me to book whereas others say it is too soon.
![Shiara](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/2/3/8/1/utbp_36282381.jpg?r=14513)
At the ending of last year was hardships, I began planning my wedding last year. Now, we have pushed everything back 1 yr. So instead 2022, it is now 2023. So the question, is should I keep moving...
![Brianna](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/2/3/1/3/utbp_36422313.jpg?r=35333)
Hey everybody! I hope all is well! How is everybody feeling when the date is coming up? It’s going to be here before we know it!
![Brooke](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/7/2/9/7/utbp_37827297.jpg?r=28583)
I booked my venue and loved it when I first toured. I wasn’t so sure about the management and how some things were portrayed when touring, but I overlooked them because I loved the venue. However, now...