Discussions from Planning

I’ve been debating on sending out save the date cards. I feel like they’re pointless. Is it okay to just send out invitations and skipping over save the date cards?

Happy new year, all! I had a quick logistics question. We have a couple guests of honor who we want to give a wrist corsage. However, they're not in the wedding party, so they won't be getting ready...

We are only having our nieces and nephews at our wedding no other kids- but My sister will have a 6 month old and my brother will have a 1.5 year old and a 4 year old. We are having a Friday night...

My wedding is a week and a half away, and we’re only having 20 people. My sister tested positive for Covid last week, and my mom and brother were exposed to her. They are all vaccinated so they’re...

Small ceremony, big reception? My fiancé and I were planning for a big October golf course wedding. It was going to be around 150 people, and cost $15,000-$20,000. Over the weekend we...

It made the wedding feel real, excited is an understatement. What is the rsvp no ratio ?we are inviting 100 people do people really rsvp yes and not come?

Hi y’all! My fiancé and I are in the midst of booking for 10/29/2022 (one of the only dates available) and now I have this sudden irrational fear that the date is too close for comfort for Halloween....

Hi all! Currently we’ve landed on having a Friday wedding, mostly for availability and cost. I was really surprised seeing the difference in pricing for just one day’s difference! Brides, what was...

Howdy y'all! My fiancé and I are getting married on May 21, 2022 (approximately 5 months away). I am in my last year of studying chemical engineering and so I was extremely busy during the semester...

I’m Really on the fence about weather or not we need wedding favors. We are having a very small wedding so it wouldn’t be much of an expensive…I’m just not sure if they are relevant and if they are...

I’m trying to decide whether I should do robes or pj sets for my bridesmaids and I just thought about doing a mix n match and asking what each person prefers! Has anyone done this? Any pics you could...

Hey everyone!! I was looking at a sample contract and I have noticed that it stated, ''after a guarantee minimum of 120 guest is met, the price for children under 10 and vendors will be 1/2 price.''...

Hi guys! I need some wisdom on picking a wedding date. So I just got engaged like 4 days ago and my fiancé and I are trying to figure out dates regarding school and stuff like that. The date...

Hey everyone!! I will be shuttling guests from two different hotels which I have a room block at to our venue. This is a "must" and not a luxury because our venue does not have the ability to...

Anyone doing buffet style? If so, are you decorating the table with dinnerware or just centerpieces? I am trying to figure out what to do...

Me and the fiancee are in the early planning stages. So far we have looked at an outdoor venue but there is a big rift now with her parents. Currently they want us to get married in the catholic...

Hi all super new to the app! We have the same date!! Think I'm a little late to the party on planning but it's only going to be a small wedding! How are your guys planning coming along?

We don't have an MC or DJ so I was thinking of hiring a day-of-coordinator. Our overall cost is 8k and her fee is $675 plus tip, so it's kind of a lot, especially since we've been budgeting...

Is anyone doing a basic wedding? (No reception? Or maybe just a nice dinner after the ceremony?) All the venues around us are 10,000+ dollars. We don’t have a huge family so we have no need to rent a...

I'm going to jump right in, and will try to keep this from being a book... My fiancé may be switching jobs which would entail a pay cut, so with that I feel guilty in spending tons of money on a...