Discussions from Planning

I am trying to get almost all of the vendors done way in advance as my wedding is 11/04/2023 so I get the vendors that me and my fh wants. As I am in college and he is not in college, it is hard...

We're mostly seeing this issue with cousins from the same generation as us living with our aunts/uncles. A couple of notes here: - Children below the age of 18 are not invited because we're having an...

So, we set our date for Thursday, March 2, 2023 and I’m not exactly sure when to send out our invitations. It’s on a Thursday in Topanga Canyon, CA which is about 15 minutes away (45 depending on our...

My wedding is in 6 months and I have begun sending my invitations. My wedding invitations and nuptial website were gifted by my bestfriend/MoH whose brother in law owns a high-end wedding design...

We were finally ready to book our dream venue, ready to write a deposit check when I realized that our date is Father's Day! We have several factors that went into our date, including when I can fly...

Hey everybody! I’m in the process of making mini hangover kit bags for my hotel room block guests. One bag will contain one of the following items: packet of Advil, emergenc packet, tic-tac packet,...

Currently trying to decide on a venue within the coming days. The option that we like the most, and is also more affordable by at least 5k, is mainly outdoors with not the best back up option. This is...

On the envelope for mailing the Save the Date cards .... do you indicate WHO will be invited? Like, how do you let the people know to "save the date" but it's just for you, not your kids. OR the other...

So, my fiances grandfather is a member of the clergy in our church and its very important for us that he gets to marry us. Well, he unfortunately just got a cancer diagnosis. Our wedding isn't until...

Are you donating them to a local homeless shelter, funeral home for families who can’t afford flowers, nursing home, etc or just throwing them away? I recently saw that this company takes care of it...

Hi, all! I am just getting started on trying to plan my wedding and wow is it overwhelming! My fiance and I are currently tentatively setting 9/23/23 as our day. How early is too early to start...

I am getting married soon and my sister-in-law designed a wedding invitation she wants to send out to the guests on the grooms (my future husband) side. At the top of the invitation she wrote "(My...

I know it’s just a dress but it’s one I picked out with just my mom and so felt very special. Plus, I felt amazing in it and splurged for it. Throughout the whole pandemic wedding planning, knowing...

Hello fellow brides! I wanted to do a mini vent about save the dates and also need some advice. We booked an awesome photographer, but unfortunately after we booked she relocated from California to...

We're leaning toward a strawberry-lemon-thyme cake, but I don't want people to not eat it. We have some picky eaters who might be put off by the thyme. It's a pretty plain vanilla cake with...

Just wondering if guest of honors can be a thing? I have friends that live out of state that wouldn't be able to do any of the "bridesmaid duties" but I still want them to be apart of our big day!...

My fiancé and I found a venue that we absolutely love. But they have absolutely no Saturdays or Fridays available at all for their wedding season but have Sunday’s available. But before he and I can...

Sooo I fell really behind and ended up never ordering my save the dates (ugh 😞) so I decided I wanna skip them completely since now is the time I should be sending out the actual wedding invites. My...