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2 quick questions
Lav, on November 2, 2021 at 11:30 AM

1 - does my vendors like photographer, dj etc get count as a plated seat also or only my guests? 2 - I am planning to propose to my flower girl and ring bearers and I would like to know when I am...

Lav, Nov 2, 2021 10 173
Allison
Save the Date Size
Allison, on October 29, 2021 at 4:14 PM

What size should I do our Save the Dates if the photo will take up the entire space? 3.5 x 5, 4.25 x 5.5, or 4.5 x 6.25. Thanks!

Allison, Nov 2, 2021 3 135
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Thanksgiving weekend wedding
Ashley, on February 22, 2021 at 10:17 AM

Hey all! I was hoping to get some advice about hosting a wedding the Saturday after Thanksgiving. Normally, I would be totally against holiday weddings but this is the only date open for the rest of...

Molly, Nov 1, 2021 21 326 1
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Website for plated dinner
Giuliana, on November 1, 2021 at 12:28 AM

Hey guys, The venue I chose offers plated dinner, so I’d like to pick a website that allows you to see the menu and pick your dinner choice as you RSVP. I would hate to have to keep asking guests one...

Allaura, Nov 1, 2021 5 180
CountryBride
Any one else feeling wedding emotions
CountryBride, on October 28, 2021 at 2:36 PM

We are 176 days from our big day, We are so excited for it to come there are days especially this past week where I find myself tearing up thinking about our wedding and how I can't believe he chose...

Heather, Nov 1, 2021 4 127
Future_Mrs._Sikes
Opinions on first look photos???
Future_Mrs._Sikes, on January 12, 2017 at 11:29 PM

I always thought I wanted to follow tradition and not have my groom see me until I walk down the aisle. I started thinking about it, though, and if I stay traditional then I won't get very many photos...

Caitlin, Nov 1, 2021 61 435
Layla
Micro-wedding people- how did you play music and announce each next ‘activity’?
Layla, on October 30, 2021 at 9:12 PM

I’m trying to figure out who is going to play the music when I walk down the aisle (the music is on my phone and we’re using the venues speakers), start the music again when cocktail hour starts,...

Heather, Nov 1, 2021 9 410
Jennifer
No Ubers, Lyft, unreliable taxis
Jennifer, on October 30, 2021 at 9:51 AM

We are getting married in a small town where Ubers and Lyfts don’t exist. There is a taxi number, but it’s not very reliable. Our reception venue does have a lot of ample parking and maybe most people...

Elycia, Nov 1, 2021 18 458
Shannon
Bridal shower
Shannon, on October 28, 2021 at 5:57 PM

Hello everyone, Who are you supposed to invite to your bridal shower?

Shannon, Nov 1, 2021 12 196
Ali
The Loralie Gilmore issue
Ali, on October 31, 2021 at 8:59 PM

So I'm still in the beginning stages of planning our wedding and so far everything is falling into place we haven't really had any moments of indecision. We fell in love with our first venue, found a...

Maggie, Nov 1, 2021 6 312
Tiffany
Staying apart on for the night before the wedding?
Tiffany, on July 24, 2021 at 3:55 PM

Hi everyone! Wondering what everyone is doing the night before the wedding? My fiancé and I have been together 9 years (it will be 10 years before the wedding) and we’re trying to figure out what we...

Casey, Nov 1, 2021 215 4,760 4
Stefanie
Invitations
Stefanie, on October 28, 2021 at 2:30 PM

How far out did you order your wedding invitations? Where did you order from? Any special deals you all received?

Casey, Nov 1, 2021 11 228
amandal0514
Wedding Cakes from HEB
amandal0514, on February 6, 2016 at 9:59 PM

Has anyone ever gotten their wedding cake from HEB? They're just so expensive at the regular places! I went to our new HEB in town but was told they didn't do them there but to try another specific...

Michelle, Oct 31, 2021 16 6,076
Brianna
Addressing save the dates
Brianna, on October 27, 2021 at 1:31 PM

Hello everybody! So I got my save the dates and I’m getting them ready to mail out. It’s three people in one household that I want to send one too. Two of them have the same last name and one has a...

Brianna, Oct 31, 2021 5 119 1
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Ice cream wedding cake. Has anyone done it?
Sara, on October 13, 2016 at 2:34 PM

My fiance and I don't care for cake but love ice cream, so want to have an ice cream cake for our dessert. We'll have a small regular cake for display and us to cut and the ice cream cake will be back...

Cassiedi, Oct 29, 2021 20 7,734
Sexypoodle
3 Days To Go!!!
Sexypoodle, on October 27, 2021 at 11:51 AM

After a nearly 3-year engagement (thanks covid). We are finally down to only 3 days until our Hawaiian “elopement-moon”. A wave of excitement and emotions rushed over me. But this week is busy due to...

Sexypoodle, Oct 29, 2021 12 115
Jennifer
No one attending my wedding…need help?!
Jennifer, on August 15, 2021 at 12:48 PM

Hey everyone Need a bit of advice & also venting: My wedding is scheduled for 10/02/21. I invited 80 people, and I only have about 18 attending. This is the only time in my life I’ve asked people...

Fiona, Oct 29, 2021 42 4,481 1
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Destination wedding?
Amber, on October 26, 2021 at 6:38 PM

I've seen a few discussion boards about destinations weddings but they are all from 4+ years ago. We are thinking of going to Jamaica for an all inclusive "weddingmoon" and inviting 10-20 family and...

Rue, Oct 29, 2021 4 122 2
Solana
Couples getting married on December 21, 2021
Solana, on October 26, 2021 at 10:42 PM

Hey everyone! I’m surprised so many people are getting married on a Tuesday like me! 🤍💍

Fiona, Oct 28, 2021 11 105 1
Layla
How to make a micro wedding not feel awkward?
Layla, on October 26, 2021 at 6:53 PM

We’re having 18 people, immediate family only plus a few cousins. Our venue is a resort where we’re all staying, and the actual wedding is in a ‘great room’ adjacent to a private dining room, so we’ll...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Oct 28, 2021 4 712
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