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1 - does my vendors like photographer, dj etc get count as a plated seat also or only my guests? 2 - I am planning to propose to my flower girl and ring bearers and I would like to know when I am...
![Allison](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/3/8/7/utbp_36410387.jpg?r=97448)
What size should I do our Save the Dates if the photo will take up the entire space? 3.5 x 5, 4.25 x 5.5, or 4.5 x 6.25. Thanks!
Hey all! I was hoping to get some advice about hosting a wedding the Saturday after Thanksgiving. Normally, I would be totally against holiday weddings but this is the only date open for the rest of...
Hey guys, The venue I chose offers plated dinner, so I’d like to pick a website that allows you to see the menu and pick your dinner choice as you RSVP. I would hate to have to keep asking guests one...
![CountryBride](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/4/4/4/3/utbp_33324443.jpg?r=27456)
We are 176 days from our big day, We are so excited for it to come there are days especially this past week where I find myself tearing up thinking about our wedding and how I can't believe he chose...
![Future_Mrs._Sikes](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/9/5/5/6/utbp_6459556.jpg?r=13461279)
I always thought I wanted to follow tradition and not have my groom see me until I walk down the aisle. I started thinking about it, though, and if I stay traditional then I won't get very many photos...
![Layla](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/2/7/9/5/utbp_35722795.jpg?r=61795)
I’m trying to figure out who is going to play the music when I walk down the aisle (the music is on my phone and we’re using the venues speakers), start the music again when cocktail hour starts,...
![Jennifer](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/9/1/1/utbp_36858911.jpg?r=77009)
We are getting married in a small town where Ubers and Lyfts don’t exist. There is a taxi number, but it’s not very reliable. Our reception venue does have a lot of ample parking and maybe most people...
![Shannon](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/4/9/7/utbp_35493497.jpg?r=41646)
Hello everyone, Who are you supposed to invite to your bridal shower?
![Ali](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/7/1/5/utbp_33231715.jpg?r=12424)
So I'm still in the beginning stages of planning our wedding and so far everything is falling into place we haven't really had any moments of indecision. We fell in love with our first venue, found a...
![Tiffany](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/7/2/7/utbp_7086727.jpg?r=88079)
Hi everyone! Wondering what everyone is doing the night before the wedding? My fiancé and I have been together 9 years (it will be 10 years before the wedding) and we’re trying to figure out what we...
![Stefanie](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/0/6/3/utbp_32786063.jpg?r=61267)
How far out did you order your wedding invitations? Where did you order from? Any special deals you all received?
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Has anyone ever gotten their wedding cake from HEB? They're just so expensive at the regular places! I went to our new HEB in town but was told they didn't do them there but to try another specific...
![Brianna](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/2/3/1/3/utbp_36422313.jpg?r=35333)
Hello everybody! So I got my save the dates and I’m getting them ready to mail out. It’s three people in one household that I want to send one too. Two of them have the same last name and one has a...
My fiance and I don't care for cake but love ice cream, so want to have an ice cream cake for our dessert. We'll have a small regular cake for display and us to cut and the ice cream cake will be back...
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After a nearly 3-year engagement (thanks covid). We are finally down to only 3 days until our Hawaiian “elopement-moon”. A wave of excitement and emotions rushed over me. But this week is busy due to...
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![Jennifer](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/3/0/5/utbp_29041305.jpg?r=95802)
Hey everyone Need a bit of advice & also venting: My wedding is scheduled for 10/02/21. I invited 80 people, and I only have about 18 attending. This is the only time in my life I’ve asked people...
I've seen a few discussion boards about destinations weddings but they are all from 4+ years ago. We are thinking of going to Jamaica for an all inclusive "weddingmoon" and inviting 10-20 family and...
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Hey everyone! I’m surprised so many people are getting married on a Tuesday like me! 🤍💍
![Layla](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/2/7/9/5/utbp_35722795.jpg?r=61795)
We’re having 18 people, immediate family only plus a few cousins. Our venue is a resort where we’re all staying, and the actual wedding is in a ‘great room’ adjacent to a private dining room, so we’ll...