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![Lulu](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/7/4/1/utbp_29743741.jpg?r=20443)
There are 6 children (niece/nephews) that I want to make feel involved in the wedding-I’m thinking ushers etc-they are too old to be ring bearers/flower girls…any ideas as to what I can have them do?
![Layla](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/2/7/9/5/utbp_35722795.jpg?r=61795)
My venue is 3 hours from me, in a remote area so I only have two florist options. One is out of my budget so I’m going with the 2nd. They gave me a detailed email at first and asked me questions, and...
![Michelle](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/0/4/7/utbp_35478047.jpg?r=21629)
Are you having a Halloween wedding and embracing the season? Or dreaming of the idea? What colors and vibe would you choose? Bright and fun, dark and moody? Pumpkins or blood red roses?
![mrswinteriscoming](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/5/7/4/1/utbp_32175741.jpg?r=29289)
Pretty much everything I have planned for the wedding has gone to s&%t or changed in some way or another, some by reason of COVID. I’m at that point where I don’t even care anymore because if I...
My family tells me to stop ordering stuff for the wedding. But I can’t help it. I want to be satisfied with how everything looks. I know no one will really care as it’s a day about the couple but I...
I’m getting married in Lake Tahoe next year and I saw this at one of the venues. What do we think about this decor? Thanks!
![Jessica](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/9/0/5/utbp_35628905.jpg?r=25462)
We got our engagement photos back the other day! I need to start working on our Save the Dates but Im stuck on what picture to use! I love them all!
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So, I couldn’t decide which photo to use for our save the date and I really like this picture but I’m worried that it might be too intimate? Should I pick a different photo? Here’s my other picks:...
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![Melinda](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/6/6/3/utbp_35911663.jpg?r=44240)
After 9 months of planning we are only 130ish days out. Today I officially gave up trying to be superwoman! I manage a dental practice four days a week and also work 8 days a month bartending to help...
![Breanna](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/7/2/5/5/utbp_33327255.jpg?r=89055)
Hey. I just have so many ideas for the wedding. But I’m just having a hard time trying to put it together. Any suggestions ?
![Brittney](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/3/9/5/utbp_33018395.jpg?r=15046)
Okay, so I am a DIY Bride with no other vendors help besides photographer, DJ, and Hair. My fiancé talked me into getting a day of coordinator, which I fully agreed with because the last thing I want...
![Alexis](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/4/4/4/7/utbp_35474447.jpg?r=66443)
Timeline help please! I’m feeling very overwhelmed with a bunch of sample timelines I’ve seen. I can’t find anything that seems like it would work for me. Any help would be appreciated! I have 2...
I've been engaged since Oct 12 2019, and due to covid and school, we had to postpone to 2023. We are looking at sights now for a small intimate wedding (25-30 guests) and we are so excited! What do...
![Patricia](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/9/7/4/utbp_37180974.jpg?r=72840)
Whats the reason for picking April 20 2022 to get married?
![Nicoler030](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/7/6/3/2/utbp_397632.jpg?r=3205678376)
I was wondering if anyone will be asking for monetary gifts for their wedding? I have had my own since forever and I do not need a new blender, toaster, ect.... and I wasn't sure as to how to put that...
Hey everyone! So my wedding has been postponed since August 2020 due to covid, our current date is May 2022 but my wedding is overseas and with Covid still an issue in many countries, over half my...
![Shay](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/0/8/9/utbp_36248089.jpg?r=17522)
This might be a stupid question, is it weird that my two daughters(10 & 11) and my sister(23) will be my bridesmaids?? Not sure if anyone will have their kids as bridesmaids. By the time our...
![Gabrielle](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/9/9/4/3/utbp_32569943.jpg?r=95366)
My fiancé and I are discussing a sparkler send off. Anyone know of any good places to order or tips? Was this successful for you?
![Nakia](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/9/2/2/utbp_9376922.jpg?r=35189)
We are working on our guest list and I’m torn on inviting my step family. My dad has been married to his wife since 2004, so I’m very familiar with her 3 children, their 6 children (who all look at me...