Discussions from Planning

If anyone is doing wax seals for their invitations where did you get the wax from? Definitely don't want to spend a ton. Also if anyone did two colors how did it turn out?

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So I made accommodations at a certain hotel because I assumed my guests wouldn’t want to spend much on a room but I decided I should have gone with the nicer hotel $100 more! I already sent out...

Brides and brides to be,any advice on whether or not to get a coordinator? I have high functioning anxiety and recently putting together our guest list has made me a tad bit stressed out thinking...

Sooo my wedding date is suppose to be in 2023 ...... But im kinda thinking I want to move everything up. Now I kinda just want a small ceremony ( like a courthouse) and have a little celebration...

Has anyone done a backyard wedding? What are the pros and cons?

Hey guys! So we’re about 25 days away from our wedding and have been trying to tie up some loose ends - one of those is having all our vendors sign the venue’s liability waiver. Problem is - our DJ is...

I’m not having bridesmaids, but I still want to give something to my best friend (maid of honor) but how can I word my proposal if i’m not actually having bridesmaids?

Hi Brides, Is anyone else experiencing a groom who could care less about any of the planning process? So this is my first marriage but my grooms second. I thought if anything, he’d be down for the...

Most of my vendors are their own businesses (photographers, music/lighting, day of coordinator, florals, officiant), do we tip them additional if they set their own prices? Side question: did you tip...

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Just curious how many people you invited to your wedding and how many actually showed up? We have 100 guest minimum and we are inviting 120 hoping to get 100 or slightly over. We cant afford anymore...

Hello there so since we have some time , What are some of you brides doing

I'm hoping someone may have a suggestion for an alternative to an anniversary dance when one of the couple is disabled. My parents, who will be a month shy of 68 years of marriage on my daughter's...

Anyone else totally freaking out about the news in the last 2 weeks about the delta variant? I’m getting married October 16, 2021 in Southern California. Plan is for ~160 people indoors and vaccines...

Hi brides! My fiancé and I are paying for the majority of our wedding, but since we are not having a rehearsal dinner (private ceremony just us two, no need for rehearsal), my fiancé’s parents chipped...

Hey how many people did you invite to your wedding and how many actually came? We want to stick to 140 guests but there are some we supposedly have to invite for "etiquette" but they probably will not...

Covid aside, how many people did you invite vs how many actually attended? Every group is different because some circles will have 100% attendance while others only have half, contrary to wedding tv...

I've been hearing that roughly 10% of the people invited to the wedding say they can't attend. I was wondering how accurate that was? Also, did you ladies have any no-shows? We were originally going...

My wedding is in 2 weeks on September 4th and we are making all the final payments and such right now!! It’s very exciting but I’m sad and it’s mentally stressing me out that our savings for the...