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Christina
To elope or not to elope?
Christina, on August 12, 2021 at 11:08 PM

So my fiancée and I are torn on whether we should continue our wedding plans or just elope. This wedding for 100 guests is going to take a considerable amount of our savings. More than we’d like. I’m...

Christina, Aug 16, 2021 7 226
Marilyn
Save the Dates
Marilyn, on August 15, 2021 at 6:43 PM

Hello everyone. I had a question in regards to Save the Dates. I wanted to know if anyone knows of a good electronic method or website to send an online or email version?

Jessyca, Aug 16, 2021 4 86
Allison
Delta worried
Allison, on August 15, 2021 at 4:02 AM

Wedding is Sept 4th. I’m 3 weeks out (sooo close) and this delta variant is making me feel at any last moment big changes could happen which is stressing me out! I can’t handle replanning AGAIN....

Arianna, Aug 16, 2021 4 311 1
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Who else is less than 60 days?!
Shalla, on July 28, 2021 at 6:43 AM

We are less than 60 days out now!!!!! Who else is there or feeling it too? Are you ready?

Shalla, Aug 16, 2021 29 303 1
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The Venetian or Russo’s?
Amanda, on August 15, 2021 at 4:53 PM

We finally finished touring all of the places we liked and have narrowed it down to two- The Venetian in NJ or Russos on the Bay in Howard beach. They are both basically the same price. I was...

Megan, Aug 16, 2021 2 207
Dennis
Gay Wedding
Dennis, on August 13, 2021 at 11:35 AM

We (James and Dennis) are getting married in late September 2021 , we are blessed that we both have found happiness during this stage of our life. We are 70 years of age, but are very active and...

Betty, Aug 16, 2021 11 312 1
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Shotgun wedding
Tyesha, on August 15, 2021 at 8:55 PM

Hi everyone! I was planning to get married next spring but now I just found out I’m pregnant! So I really want to move up the wedding to September! Am I being unfair to everyone by moving up the...

Lauren, Aug 15, 2021 3 247
Lisa
Checking Things off the Lists!
Lisa, on August 12, 2021 at 5:34 PM

Does anyone else get super pumped when you get to check something off your wedding 'To-Do' lists!? Lately we've been checking things off and getting things done and it is so satisfying! I even go as...

Lisa, Aug 15, 2021 15 104
Diana
Small wedding, would a DJ be awkward?
Diana, on March 31, 2017 at 12:27 PM

Including us we're at 35 people. I planned on a DJ but have heard from others it may be awkward, so now I'm second guessing if we should. It never crossed my mind that it would be weird if only a few...

Ingrid, Aug 15, 2021 28 6,787 1
Elizabeth
Are you over/under budget? Same or diff plan? 44 days to go!
Elizabeth, on August 13, 2021 at 8:37 AM

So I set myself a really low budget for just the wedding and was going to diy almost the entire thing. Then we were going to do a backyard bonfire diy reception. Wedding of 20 people. Then I found a...

Ingrid, Aug 15, 2021 14 337 2
Cindy
Save the dates
Cindy, on August 14, 2021 at 9:12 AM

I just sent out save the dates . Do people usually message you if they received them ? What’s the protocol?

Ingrid, Aug 15, 2021 10 185
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Non-picture People
Renee, on August 14, 2021 at 8:52 PM

My fiancee and I don't really care for pictures of ourselves. If we take any of ourselves, we take them ourself. I've been trying to figure out how many pictures we would need the photographer to take...

Mcskipper, Aug 15, 2021 5 167
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Wedding & Birthday
Lav, on August 13, 2021 at 9:55 PM

Any suggestions on how I can incorporate my wedding (10/01/22) with my birthday (10/02/22)? I don’t have any ideia on what to do other than saying it’s my birthday lol

Bird, Aug 15, 2021 7 144
Stefanie
Timing of wedding events
Stefanie, on August 12, 2021 at 8:05 PM

How did you all come up with the timing of your wedding events? Meaning I am trying to time hair, makeup, and pictures before the wedding. Our wedding will start at 4pm. Any ideas?

Stefanie, Aug 14, 2021 9 172
Meghan
How to ask venue for add similar add ons post contract
Meghan, on August 11, 2021 at 2:42 PM

I wrote in a Facebook page asking about brides getting married at our venue their feedback on the menu. One bride said that they’re having a bunch of dessert options added at no extra charge! I didn’t...

Ashlee, Aug 14, 2021 4 192
Melissa
I'm not excited
Melissa, on August 13, 2021 at 1:35 PM

Hello fellow Brides out there, I have a question. My wedding is 9 days away. After 8 hard months of planning I can't believe it's around the corner. However, im NOT excited. Everyone else is more...

Melissa, Aug 14, 2021 11 771
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When to reserve wedding venue?
Renee, on August 9, 2021 at 10:27 AM

Hello all! We set our wedding date for Nov 11th, 2022. Obviously we are more than a year away from that day. So far I called our church to reserve with the priest for that day, but I'm getting...

Renee, Aug 14, 2021 22 509
Kim
Do you send invitations to parents?
Kim, on March 2, 2010 at 10:18 AM

This is likely a silly question, but do you send wedding invitations to your parents and the groom's parents??? I'm designing and planning sending out the invitations and it just seemed a little odd...

Michelle, Aug 14, 2021 11 4,372
K
Getting ready location
K, on August 13, 2021 at 11:57 AM

Hi there! My wedding is in 4 weeks and I’m starting to get a bit nervous about my getting ready location. The church has a room we can use, but we can’t arrive sooner than 12 pm to get ready for our 4...

K, Aug 14, 2021 13 264
Kelly
moh Has Covid--15 Days Out
Kelly, on August 13, 2021 at 5:23 PM

So my fully vaccinated MOH has tested positive for Covid. I am 15 days out from my wedding. She is still feeling okay. I am more worried about her than my wedding obviously. She may not be able to...

Anais, Aug 14, 2021 4 383
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