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Hey guys! I’m getting married august 21 and am struggling with creating a wedding day timeline. The ceremony starts at 4:30 and any tips and help would be so much appreciated❤️
Having to make a decision about when to send wedding invitations for our wedding which will be on October 1st, 2022. We were planning to send them 6 to 8 weeks out which would have us mailing them in...
I’m planning out our timeline for the day of the wedding. We have a shuttle picking up guests at the hotel at 3:00pm, driving guests 25 mins to the venue from the hotel. Ceremony starts at 4:30pm. The...
![Heather](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/9/9/6/5/utbp_36479965.jpg?r=50473)
My fiancé and I are having a small, intimate wedding. Our dilemma is adding plus ones that are strangers to us and are not in either of our lives. What is the etiquette for this situation?
![Sarah](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/7/1/3/utbp_30950713.jpg?r=90072)
Hello all! Our plan currently is to require all our guests to be full vaccinated or have a negative covid test. Do we like this wording? Thanks!
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![Kelly](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/4/1/1/utbp_31940411.jpg?r=45330)
So the future in-laws brought an idea to us last night. They heard from a friend of a friend about using paint brushes to brush sand from your feet after the beach ceremony. And while that's great,...
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FH and I are currently evaluating if we cancel our wedding because after one round of postponing and a heap of new COVID cases in our area (we are currently in lockdown) we know that our wedding,...
![Emily](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/8/0/9/utbp_8450809.jpg?r=14442206)
Is anyone skipping the whole traditional "officiant, chairs lined up, walk down the aisle, I Do" ceremony? I was thinking about only having a reception but with a short and sweet "mini-ceremony" at...
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Has anyone done a ceremony only with a few wanted guest but no reception ? If so , did you regret not doing it - or what did you do right after ?
![Grace](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/9/2/9/utbp_32476929.jpg?r=30603)
Who else is planning a winter wedding? What fun cold-weather or seasonal plans have you made that you are looking forward to? If your wedding has already happened or you attended a winter wedding as a...
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We and a majority of our guests live in the same area, about 2.5hrs-3hrs away from the wedding location. Could this be considered a slight destination wedding? Or not really. Our living location and...
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I know this has been asked before but I’m wondering if there are people who regret not getting a videographer or people who regret getting one? I’m looking for some honest feedback as I try &...
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So my fiancé and I aren't getting married until the end of 2022. We'll have under 20 guests because of budget. All we wanted to rent for the ceremony and reception were some chairs, tables, and an...
Hi there! I'm currently planning a wedding and we will both be brides. This is new to some vendors which I get but hoping I can get some help. My DJ sent us forms that didn't take into account we...
![Katherine](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/4/3/3/1/utbp_36434331.jpg?r=90479)
Hello! I am having the hardest time choosing a date for a destination wedding in the US that works with the busy schedules of my friends. My significant other and I are not "officially" engaged yet,...
My fiancé and I are trying to decide how many people we want to have in our bridal party. We are thinking about having two people on each side (so a maid of honor and one bridesmaid, and a best man...
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Do you mail save the dates to your parents and his ? Even if they live in the same city as you ? Im leaning yes . But wanted to hear others thoughts
![Emily](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/1/7/9/utbp_32411179.jpg?r=56568)
How did you write your "Our Story" section on your website? Did you write it in 3rd person? I feel like that sounds weird (and kind of pretentious) but I also don't want it to sound like it's just...
So my rsvp deadline is august 21st. I’m getting married September 18th. When is a good time to start getting on people about their rsvps?