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Virginia
Florist expectations
Virginia, on April 12, 2021 at 5:31 PM

I had my first meeting today with a florist who specializes in weddings and I’m hoping that what I was told is not the norm. She told me the minimum for flower purchase was $800 and that...

Hanna, Apr 13, 2021 9 326
CountryBride
To have a selfie station
CountryBride, on April 12, 2021 at 2:02 PM

So my DJ was running a promotion and offered it to us we booked with him and he would throw in a free selfie station, is it tacky to have one, we are going for a relaxed fun vibe

CountryBride, Apr 13, 2021 6 125
Cherise
What’s the plan after the reception???
Cherise, on April 11, 2021 at 9:12 AM

We are at the planning stage where we decide where to go & what to do after the reception ends? Throw an after party? Go back to the hotel? We’re not going directly to our honeymoon destination...

Virginia, Apr 12, 2021 19 413
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Designated Host
TrudiAnn, on April 12, 2021 at 11:00 PM

Hi Everyone, My fiancé and I don’t want the hassle of having to check in on guests on our wedding day so we decided to designate someone to do this. Has anyone else made such arrangements for their...

TrudiAnn, Apr 12, 2021 13 212
Ashley
Can't take the leap and commit to any wedding plans
Ashley, on April 9, 2021 at 6:47 PM

My fiance and I have gone through half a dozen different wedding ideas and everytime we think we've figured what we want to do we change our mind a week later. How do figure out what we really want to...

Samantha, Apr 12, 2021 6 169 1
Danielle
Not having a bridal party?
Danielle, on April 11, 2021 at 2:14 PM

We are thinking about not having a bridal party. My parents think I am crazy and should include our close friends, but we kind of just want it to be us. Looking for opinions on doing that or maybe...

Fred, Apr 12, 2021 11 293
Ashley
Save the Dates and Invites destination wedding
Ashley, on April 10, 2021 at 6:25 PM

Hi everyone, For those who have had or are planning to have a destination wedding (the requires a passport)...what is the etiquette/protocol with timing of sending out save the dates and invitations?...

Ashley, Apr 12, 2021 4 94
Chatae
Times
Chatae, on April 6, 2021 at 10:08 AM

My wedding ceremony and reception is from 3-8pm is that enough time or should i make it longer? If thats a good time whats a good time line?

Cristina, Apr 12, 2021 9 128
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Paying all wedding expenses in advance
Bride2Be, on April 9, 2021 at 2:08 PM

I’ve been seeing a lot of comments from people about not paying the full amounts ahead of time. Like to just follow the deposit schedule in case anything happens. My fiancé wants to get all payments...

Cristina, Apr 12, 2021 14 734
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Help! Guest list is bigger than expected
Marisa-, on April 10, 2021 at 5:55 PM

So, my fiancé and I officially booked a venue. We told our venue we would have up to 60-70 guests, and it says up to 70 on our contract. Our wedding is a bit small. So my fiancé and I started our...

Cristina, Apr 12, 2021 13 1,166
Michelle
May Venue cancelled Again.
Michelle, on March 19, 2021 at 3:04 PM

Hello! So I've been in a bit of a pickle. I had all my vendors booked and venue since before the pandemic started and I postponed my original wedding date from October 2, 2020 to May 23, 2021. Now my...

Veronica, Apr 12, 2021 23 472
Meghan
2 hrs enough - 1st look /pics
Meghan, on April 9, 2021 at 9:47 AM

We spoke to our venue and have a brief time line for our wedding (in September 2021). We would arrive at the venue at 2:30 for first look and pictures. The ceremony starts at 4:30, cocktail hour at 5,...

Lynnie, Apr 12, 2021 4 129
June
Cake in the face? Really?
June, on December 10, 2010 at 11:49 PM

Is it just me or is smashing cake in each other's face kind of mean? Am I being overly sensitive about this or does it bother anyone else? I don't see the humor in it, and I can make a joke about most...

Samantha, Apr 12, 2021 70 4,885
Ashley
Future sil wedding date
Ashley, on April 10, 2021 at 11:57 PM

Okay so, I've already discussed with my sister who is going to be my Matron of Honor about this but I'm lost at finding the right words to explain to my fiance about why I don't want our previously...

Jennifer, Apr 12, 2021 8 270
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Postponed wedding celebration
Kres, on April 11, 2021 at 4:17 AM

Are you having a vow renewal with reception to follow? Or are you skipping the ceremony and having reception only? Are you wearing your wedding gown, etc..?

Jennifer, Apr 12, 2021 6 120 2
Michelle
Elements you are skipping
Michelle, on April 9, 2021 at 6:59 PM

What are you choosing to not include in your wedding? Maybe it doesn't mean anything to you and fiance or it's an unnecessary expense your guests would not partake in.

Jennifer, Apr 12, 2021 14 290
Juliana
What to play for a December wedding cocktail hour?
Juliana, on April 8, 2021 at 7:28 AM

Hey fellow Brides and B-T-B's! So, I got a great deal with my Dj with Unlimited Weddings and they gave me this App called Vibo that lets you put your own music on the list. How involved do you have to...

Ivory, Apr 12, 2021 7 109
Missy
Need some advice
Missy, on April 8, 2021 at 4:26 AM

Hello! I'm a young bride and I need some advice. I feel like I'm panicking about planning my wedding and I feel like I have to make everything perfect and be a people pleaser, everyone just tells me...

Ivory, Apr 12, 2021 13 298
dpierce
Wedding Invitations... Is it tacky????
dpierce, on July 11, 2013 at 1:49 PM

Is it tacky to email wedding invitations to some guest to save money?

Michelle, Apr 12, 2021 33 227 1
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Catering Question-- Better food or save money?
Emily, on April 7, 2021 at 8:52 PM

First post here! Getting married October 1, 2022 in Milwaukee, WI. We reached out to 2 catering companies and had a tasting for each. We are having a hard time deciding which one we should go with....

Ivory, Apr 12, 2021 18 312
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