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Guadalupe
What would you rather choose?
Guadalupe, on April 8, 2021 at 8:01 AM

To future brides like me... so like me im not a tipical bride im simple and i dont like to please people and our plan has always been to get married and have a long vacation with my fh and he likes...

Christy, Apr 10, 2021 20 322
Tahne
Need help
Tahne, on April 10, 2021 at 6:57 AM

Need help planning

Sharonda, Apr 10, 2021 10 114
Carol
Do Videographers really make a difference?
Carol, on April 9, 2021 at 10:07 AM

Hiii- I am torn if I should have a videographer or not. SO I am wondering, if you had a videographer or plan to have one: Was it worth it? Outside of being there on the wedding day what did the...

Rebecca, Apr 10, 2021 26 536
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Do you tip Day of Coordinator?
Trinity, on April 7, 2021 at 10:31 PM

My DOC owns her company. Do I invite her to rehearsal dinner? Do I tip after the wedding?

Sexypoodle, Apr 10, 2021 10 167
Beth
Mini Ceremony / sequel wedding
Beth, on March 29, 2021 at 12:13 AM

Hi everyone. I got engaged on Christmas Day 2020 & my fiancé and I don’t want to wait until 2022 to get married bc we’re both older, we want to start our family, & his dad isn’t in the best of...

Beth, Apr 10, 2021 8 213
Jessica
Financially are you nervous?
Jessica, on August 22, 2017 at 6:55 PM

Just wanted to know if it's normal to feel nervous about seeing how much money needs to be paid?

Beni, Apr 9, 2021 63 883 1
Alisha
Wedding is here!
Alisha, on April 9, 2021 at 11:20 AM

Hi everyone, It is officially my wedding weekend yay. I still have few minor things to do. It has been a long road considering that we had to postpone in 2020. Now the day is finally here for us to...

Alisha, Apr 9, 2021 12 112 1
Meghan
September couples! How are you doing?
Meghan, on April 8, 2021 at 1:12 PM

How’s planning going? How are you feeling? Have you come up with any fun/unique ideas? I ordered a sample for our centerpieces. Trying to avoid using flowers so went with a pretty candle option. Have...

Rosie, Apr 9, 2021 3 109
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Getting ready - does this make sense?
Kayla, on April 8, 2021 at 3:43 AM

Our wedding is in Kaneohe, Hawaii. There is only one hotel in that town, and it's a resort. But for the hotel block, we chose a hotel in Waikiki (about 30 mins from the venue). The reason we chose...

Lynnie, Apr 9, 2021 3 146
CountryBride
Does anyone else feel like they pay on the wedding and doesn't make a difference
CountryBride, on April 8, 2021 at 1:10 PM

So we got a big stimulus check and was able to pay around 11,000 for the wedding, and we still have 10,000 left to pay on it, we are still waiting for our tax return for the rest, however, I feel like...

Rebecca, Apr 9, 2021 7 272
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Memorializing grandmother during wedding
Lindsey, on April 8, 2021 at 4:05 PM

My grandmother passed away today 5 weeks before my wedding. She was incredibly important to me, like a mother. I had really hoped she would make it to the wedding and it’s devastating me that she...

Katie, Apr 9, 2021 6 98
Richa
bridesmaids proposals
Richa, on April 6, 2021 at 2:27 PM

Probably be getting married in a courthouse. Is it possible to still create a proposal for bridesmaids? Just to have a feel of it. Or not needed?

Jennifer, Apr 9, 2021 11 142
Sarah
Sending save-the-dates: too far out?
Sarah, on April 8, 2021 at 9:24 PM

Our wedding is November 6, 2022 and most of our guests will be traveling from out of town. We’re putting our deposit down at Doubletree suites in June, and I was thinking of sending save-the-dates...

Nicole, Apr 9, 2021 21 479 1
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Can i pay the vendors In full before wedding day?
Ana, on April 8, 2021 at 8:02 AM

I was given the option to pay the remaining balance day of for DJ, Photo, video and photo booth but I would really like to do it now, get it over with and not have that to worry about wedding day.. do...

Izzykern, Apr 9, 2021 8 210
Rebecca
"Quirky" weddings - or a thread for those of us who don't always quite fit!
Rebecca, on March 28, 2021 at 3:57 AM

People often ask what style your wedding is, or the 'season', or something like that! Well, DH and I didn't quite have a style, nor were our colors very seasonal... and, while we did have a theme, it...

Rosie, Apr 9, 2021 6 338 1
Cj
On the fence to invite
Cj, on April 7, 2021 at 1:20 PM

Hi ladies - I'm curious of your experience with guest lists and people whom you were on the fence about inviting. Did you end up inviting or excluding them and were you happy or regretting the...

Sarah, Apr 8, 2021 7 247
Chelsea
rsvp
Chelsea, on April 8, 2021 at 1:33 PM

Hi all! We have sent our wedding invitations 12 weeks out. Our guest are starting the get them in the mail. How long did it take for your guest to RSVP. Most of our guest are local with some out of...

Ty, Apr 8, 2021 11 209
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My Indian/south Asian brides:mehndi night
Monica, on April 6, 2021 at 11:10 AM

For those of you that plan to get mehndi done, I have a question. So I dont have many Indian aspects to our wedding, we really cant afford it. I got mehndi for my bridal shower which was a year ago...

Monica, Apr 8, 2021 10 268
Danielle
Invitation assembly mistake big deal or not really!
Danielle, on March 7, 2021 at 11:20 PM

I’m having major anxiety over this. I already sealed all of my invitations and I just realized I assembled them wrong. I put the rsvp and detail card behind the invitation instead of in front and I...

Catherine, Apr 8, 2021 18 286
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Wedding Sendoff
Dani, on April 8, 2021 at 12:02 PM

So my venue allows us the option of either a confetti cannon or sparklers to end the reception. At my cousin's wedding, they did a bubble send off after the ceremony rather than at the end of the...

Heather, Apr 8, 2021 5 93
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