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Jessica
Planning
Jessica, on March 26, 2021 at 11:43 PM

How early is too early to start planning?

Christina, Mar 28, 2021 23 293
Sabrina
Mexico Destination Wedding!
Sabrina, on March 24, 2021 at 9:39 PM

Help! We had originally chosen Dreams Riviera Cancun Resort to get married at because of the beautiful wedding options they had, after reading a ton of reviews were not so sure that’s where we want to...

Sabrina, Mar 28, 2021 11 669
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Wedding cake
Janae, on March 17, 2021 at 7:50 PM

I am looking for someone to make my wedding cake. I reached out to a bakery that is highly recommended, they told me they'd get back to me later on the day. They did not. I called again and once again...

Janae, Mar 27, 2021 12 180
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What would you do?
Kylee, on March 22, 2021 at 11:09 PM

Okay I’m not sure what to do. Our wedding planner just posted a wedding package deal for our venue that includes the venue, caterer, florals, and cake for $4,200. We already have the venue and...

Grace, Mar 27, 2021 12 480
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Covid bride Refunds?
Dj Tanner, on February 15, 2021 at 10:28 AM

My wedding venue is making an awful lot of promises to me and I’m worried about them being able to keep those promises. We’ve been trying to jump through hoops with our state to have the wedding that...

Mother Of The Bride, Mar 27, 2021 9 296
Alycia
Moving my wedding date for the 3rd time
Alycia, on December 28, 2020 at 12:37 PM

We were originally scheduled for 4/25/2020, that didn't happen moved to 9/26/2020 and then to 4/3/2021. As January is approaching we find ourselves gearing up to move to our 4th wedding date. It is...

Zara, Mar 27, 2021 65 2,577 3
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Frustrating Vendor RANT
Monica, on March 15, 2021 at 3:22 PM

This is going to be kind of long. First of all let me start by saying I do NOT miss wedding planning. We got covid cancelled twice so October 2, 2021 is our 3rd and final date. Our original date was...

Zara, Mar 27, 2021 9 283
Cynthia
Am i exaggerating??
Cynthia, on March 12, 2021 at 3:48 PM

Hey Ladies! We are 8 weeks away from wedding day. On Feb 2nd I had told our caterer we cut our guest list back to 10. We had made a deposit of $2,500 for our original wedding of 200 back in...

Zara, Mar 27, 2021 25 648
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Canceling Covid-19 Brides - Refunds?
J, on March 16, 2020 at 3:24 PM

Hey brides! With the news from the CDC we are strongly considering cancelling our wedding as a whole & just eloping (I'm just tired of waiting to be married + spending money lol). My question is -...

Zara, Mar 27, 2021 25 5,609 2
Monica
Venue Won't Reschedule or Refund Money
Monica, on December 28, 2020 at 7:19 PM

As the COVID rates raged, many of our guests were concerned about flying and we would have to fly too because my fiance has been temporarily transferred for work. He didn't want to travel. His parents...

Zara, Mar 27, 2021 7 610
Nicole
Refunds of payments made
Nicole, on January 30, 2021 at 6:47 PM

Hey all! We’ve postponed our wedding already from December to May and now we want to make the decision to cancel altogether before some of vendors charge payments beyond the initial deposit. We won’t...

Zara, Mar 27, 2021 4 295
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My fiance is taking all the fun out of wedding planning...
Susie, on March 23, 2021 at 1:13 PM

My fiance doesn't want to talk about the wedding and appears uninterested whenever I bring it up. I have tried to involve him in any planning that I have done so far, the save the dates, invites, even...

Autumn, Mar 27, 2021 10 427
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Fiancé doesn’t get it.....
Lav, on March 17, 2021 at 8:30 PM

My fiancé don’t get what is a wedding.. he don’t understand.. he only thinks it’s a “waste” of money for only 1 day.. I feel pretty sad every time he says that he don’t “care” to plan a wedding.....

Amanda, Mar 27, 2021 26 1,244
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Bridesmaid proposal
Crystal, on March 25, 2021 at 10:48 PM

How far into wedding planning should you be before sending out bridesmaid /maid of honor proposal?

Autumn, Mar 27, 2021 20 217
Alexis
Canceled rental without asking me - help 🥺
Alexis, on March 17, 2021 at 10:44 PM

Long post ➡️ If any of you have dealt with this, please give me your opinion...or what you’d do in this case. My bridal party and I booked a party bus for my bachelorette party in May. Initially I...

Eniale, Mar 27, 2021 14 294
Name
Engagement Depression
Name, on March 17, 2021 at 2:03 PM

Is this a thing? I was excited and then began researching venues, caterers/etc and I am now overwhelmed with the realization I can't afford it. If I am going to have a wedding...I want to do it right,...

Amanda, Mar 27, 2021 16 395
Labake
What happens when vendors don't show up?
Labake , on March 29, 2012 at 10:28 AM

We all hope for everything to go as planned but they won't. I went to a wedding where the videographer didn't come. He called the bride the morning of the wedding from the ER and told her he wouldn't...

Amanda, Mar 27, 2021 27 1,552
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How long is your wedding?
Alexandra, on March 24, 2021 at 1:54 AM

So I’m thinking about a all-inclusive mini wedding package for about 40 people. It comes with a 30 ceremony, 1 hour cocktail and a 3 hour reception. Trying to figure out if this is the normal amount...

Amanda, Mar 27, 2021 17 230 1
Liz
Photo sharing
Liz, on March 26, 2021 at 6:49 PM

So has anyone or is anyone planning on a photo sharing site for guests to share pictures? And if so which site are you using ?

Michelle, Mar 27, 2021 5 125 1
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First Venue Tour
Oriagna, on March 27, 2021 at 10:13 AM

I am going on my first venue tour today both scared and excited. I wanted to know some questions I should ask before picking a date and putting a down payment on the venue.

Grace, Mar 27, 2021 6 138 1
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