Discussions from Planning

What is everyone doing for this??? Something old: my grandmother is lending me a pearl pin to put in my bouquet Something new: Embroidered lingerie with my new last name Something borrowed: I am...

Hello! We are most likely hiring a videographer that will be traveling about 2 and a half hours to our venue. I am unsure if they will be staying in town or driving back after our wedding, but if they...

I’m moving 20+ hours from my family once I marry FH. We have no idea where to get married. Where I live is beautiful but would have almost no guests because we’re new to the area. Where he lives is...

My fiancé and I are taking dance classes throughout the year to a choreographed first dance. We don’t plan on telling anyone and having it be a total surprise at the wedding. I was curious if anyone...

We are in the early stages of planning a vow renewal for our 15th anniversary. My "dream" event is a brunch - ceremony at 11, over by 3. Maybe have some other fun event later that our guests can join...

Hey all! I love the look of black envelopes with white font for save the dates. What are your thoughts? Is it too drab for a wedding invite? I think it’s sleek! FH thinks it’s odd (especially since...

We booked our venue back in June of 2020 for an October 2021 wedding. We met with our coordinator through the venue in October 2020, and haven't heard anything from the venue or the coordinator since....

Hi! I just received my invitation and RSVP set in the mail. They came out beautiful! However, I didn’t realize that the RSVPs are only 3.5 x 2.5. I have leftover RSVP envelopes from last year (we...

Hi Ladies! Need some direction; we sat down and started budget planning; our goal: 10k. Our outcome 20k. We are homeowners already & yes my wedding is in 2023 but with all this Covid & the...

Today is my final venue walk through and meeting. I have so anxious and so excited. So if any of you have any questions you forgot to ask or did ask, let me know what they were. I know my brain is...

He's committed, I'm committed, but he's intimidated at the idea of tying the knot within a year from now. Finances are a big part of it. For now, we're moving our wedding date from 09/09/2021 to...

What did you all do on your wedding day regarding decorations? Did you decorate a little or did you have someone decorate for you? I was planning on decorating with the help of my mom and my...

HIII!! I am still at the beginning of preparing for my wedding. I have a tentative date of March 27,2022 and I am getting married in Puerto Rico. I would like for my venue to be close to airbnb,...

So I just got engaged on 1/29/2021, my fiancé and I have chose a date for the wedding (November 11, 2022). We are having a destination wedding in Dominican Republic. I’m not sure if I should just take...

Our current date is 8/14/21 which is just over 6 months out. About 50% of the guest list is from out of town, primarily out of the country from Canada. If COVID isn't much better by then, and the...

I am incredibly blessed. I work in a higher-paying industry, have no student debt, and while I live in a high cost of living area, I have been able to save a significant amount of money. I am going to...

HEAR ME OUT!! My venue is small, in an enclosed garden. We have 170 guests. I'm not sure if we can fit that many chairs in there. Also, I am a very "get to the point" kind of person, and do not want...

I’m trying to decide How much to spend on photography ? I originally had a photographer booked for eight hours and they fell thru ..... now I’m wondering if one for only 4 -5 hours is enough ? Do I...

Royal Blue and Fuchsia so what do you girls think?

I’m struggling to tell a caterer that we have decided on another company after finishing multiple tastings. This one company has been extremely pushy and has followed up with us multiple times in a...