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Kaelyn
Out of state wedding?
Kaelyn, on January 10, 2021 at 4:52 PM

Was wondering if anyone has any tips and tricks on planning a wedding out of state? Kind of across the country actually lol My fiancé lives in the Jackson Hole, WY area and I am currently living in...

Ally, Jan 12, 2021 9 207
Lynnie
Finish The Sentence: We’re definitely skipping _____.
Lynnie, on July 23, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Traditions shouldn’t hold you back - we’re all for picking and choosing the traditions that are right for you and skipping the ones that aren’t! Are there any traditions or old customs you definitely...

Michelle, Jan 12, 2021 230 1,974
Jennifer
Help! Mother in Law wants my fiancé to postpone Our wedding
Jennifer, on January 11, 2021 at 4:42 PM

I don’t know where to start. I’m full of mix emotions! Is it selfish of me or my mother in law? Because she keeps bringing it up to my fiancé that she doesn’t know if she’s going to attend our...

Emily, Jan 12, 2021 14 1,078
Aaron
Where do i start?
Aaron, on January 8, 2021 at 12:38 PM

So we finally set a date. April 30, 2022. Where do I even start?! 😱

RaylaSan, Jan 11, 2021 19 197
Monica
Wedding List
Monica, on January 11, 2021 at 3:29 PM

Hi ladies! We are in the beginning of wedding planning. The day is Oct 9, 2021. How do/did you ask everyone for their addresses to send out invitations/save the dates? Something I can copy & paste...

Natalie, Jan 11, 2021 14 188
April
Bartender for our wedding..too expensive ?
April, on January 5, 2021 at 11:57 PM

We're having 120 people (possibly 100) and serving wine liquor and regular drinks. A bartender I was inquiring about sent over his quote and it was $350 for the nighy. He brings ice, cups, and...

CountryBride, Jan 11, 2021 23 620
Happily Married
Venue Regret
Happily Married, on January 10, 2021 at 11:04 AM

Has anyone ever regretted their venue after they booked it? I always envisioned having my wedding reception in a grand ballroom, attached to a terrace. I also always envisioned having an “Italian...

Molly, Jan 11, 2021 21 985
Taylor
Spring Weddings
Taylor, on January 11, 2021 at 11:05 AM

How is everyone feeling about their upcoming wedding? Has anyone shortened their guest list or pushed their date out? We are getting pressure from my MIL to either un-invite some people or to shorten...

Katie, Jan 11, 2021 8 179
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Downsizing
Tabitha, on January 11, 2021 at 11:56 AM

Need to downsize our wedding by almost 100 ppl. How should i go about information people that i have to uninvite them do to restrictions. Where is there something i can print out and send them?

Elizabeth, Jan 11, 2021 6 132
Should i settle?
, on January 11, 2021 at 8:36 AM

I have been planning this dream wedding for nearly 6 years. He finally asked the question in July 2020. I had everything planned out. It was going to be out of state but my family was already planning...

Willow, Jan 11, 2021 6 286
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fh not excited about wedding
Tee, on January 11, 2021 at 12:16 AM

Let me give some background, FH is a very laid back, shy, minimal guy. We've been together bout 4 years, engaged for 6+ months, 3 kids together. I'm excited to finally seal the deal. But he states "it...

Tee, Jan 11, 2021 14 239
Vicky
Postponed and feeling some type of way.
Vicky, on January 6, 2021 at 12:15 PM

Our original date was March 20,2021 and with things not getting better we decided to postpone to October 2,2021. I know its for the best but cant help but feel bummed out about it.

Vicky, Jan 11, 2021 23 303 1
Arriel
Save-the-date/pre-ceremony
Arriel, on January 8, 2021 at 10:05 AM

Hey Everyone! I'm heading the destination wedding planning process for two close friends. We were discussing the Save-The-Dates and they informed me that they want a Save-The-Date/Pre-Wedding...

Arriel, Jan 11, 2021 28 229
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Wedding Party Gifts
Michelle, on January 9, 2021 at 10:48 PM

Hello all, I know it's customary to present a gift to your bridal party as a thank you to them on your big day so my fiance and I have decided that for the men, we would pay for their suits and for...

Hanna, Jan 11, 2021 16 459
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Getting ready schedule when I’m the only one getting Hmu?
Lindsey, on January 11, 2021 at 8:58 AM

I’m working on my timeline and need to let my hair & makeup artist know what time I need to come in but I literally have no clue. I’m the only one going into the salon getting hair & makeup...

Lindsey, Jan 11, 2021 4 154
Lauren
Save the Dates during covid
Lauren, on January 8, 2021 at 10:51 AM

Getting married in August. Although I have hopes that things will begin opening back up and capacities will go up come summertime (currently in our area they are at 25%) I have THOUGHT about maybe...

Lauren, Jan 11, 2021 6 221
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Help finding a venue in dmv
Nicole, on January 10, 2021 at 1:53 PM

I am having the hardest time finding a venue that I absolutely love. It’s been such a stressful moment for me. Our guest count is 130-145 (we are willing to lower if necessary), our budget is...

Yasmine, Jan 11, 2021 15 191
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Getting Addresses
Doxie Mom, on January 10, 2021 at 5:01 PM

Hey Ladies! I was collecting addresses to send out save the dates. I was not super close to my paternal uncle but close enough to send an invite. He is many state away but I wanted him the chance. I...

Rebecca, Jan 11, 2021 11 154
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After the wedding
MONICAH, on January 10, 2021 at 7:56 PM

Hello everyone and congratulations, Currently planning our wedding for the year 2022. We are definitely going with the budget friendly times and day time 10am-4pm is the best prices. Anyone has ideas...

Rebecca, Jan 11, 2021 8 134
Kayla
Photography Style
Kayla, on November 7, 2020 at 2:49 PM

Hey everyone! I'm having a really hard time deciding what type of photography style I want. How did you guys decide what to go with? I'm torn between dark and moody or bright and colorful.

Michelle, Jan 11, 2021 12 393 1
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