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Postponing again?
Amy, on December 7, 2020 at 5:13 PM

Hi everyone! Our original date was June 20, 2020. We rescheduled for May 15, 2021, but are now strongly considering postponing again until June 18, 2022. We just don’t think we will be able to have...

Yasmine, Dec 10, 2020 34 551
Tina & Darren
Any couples wedding Nov 6 2021
Tina & Darren, on December 10, 2020 at 11:02 AM

Hello are there any couples wedding Nov of 2021....we decided to do Nov cause both of out birthdays are in Nov his is the 3rd and mine is the 11th ...so getting married on that dat is pefect sense...

Yasmine, Dec 10, 2020 4 122
Lisa
New Color Scheme
Lisa, on December 9, 2020 at 7:25 PM

Now that we’ve postponed to 2021; I’m wanting to modify our color scheme to be darker, which was what I initially wanted but decided against it because our wedding was during the day. For the...

Lisa, Dec 10, 2020 20 181
Lisa
Color Scheme / Attire
Lisa, on December 9, 2020 at 11:34 PM

I posted earlier about possibly changing my color scheme. Based off the comments I received my ideas weren’t the greatest so I’m trying to stick with what we originally came up with. Guest...

Judith, Dec 10, 2020 9 207
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Colorado Elopement/wedding Dress Opinions!
Jenn, on November 20, 2020 at 3:50 PM

We cancelled our large February wedding after 2 postponements and we are going to Elope in Colorado while on our honeymoon in February! Anyone get married in Colorado during winter!? Please post...

Marin, Dec 10, 2020 11 254
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We're Getting Married!
Erin, on December 8, 2020 at 8:03 PM

I know this one is obvious, after all, we all are. I've been planning our wedding since May 4th 2019, and it's finally coming up. I've planned about 5 completely unique weddings (I should really be a...

Gloria, Dec 10, 2020 11 213
Corrin
Halloween Weekend Wedding
Corrin, on December 9, 2020 at 2:44 PM

Has anyone had a wedding, or is anyone planning on having a wedding on Halloween weekend? I'm currently scheduled for May 8th, 2021, but I was thinking about pushing it out. The only date the venue...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Dec 10, 2020 7 362
Tina & Darren
Invites that didn't show up
Tina & Darren, on December 8, 2020 at 12:25 PM

I'm inviting like 100..so far 97 people rsvp...I'm wondering if all these people are going to show...that's kind of the issue..the venue is with plated food so I have to pay per head...I'm hoping that...

mrswinteriscoming, Dec 9, 2020 22 371
Yasmine
Where are you in the planning process?
Yasmine, on December 7, 2020 at 11:34 AM

For those of you getting married or having an upcoming celebration of marriage/vow renewal/reception etc., where are you in the planning process? What do you have left to do? Our celebration of...

Yasmine, Dec 9, 2020 31 194
Allison
Hotel Transportation
Allison, on December 7, 2020 at 2:26 PM

My FH and I want to offer a shuttle service from one of the hotels where we have a room block but I'm struggling to figure out how to estimate what size shuttle we'll need. For context, we're getting...

Eyonna, Dec 9, 2020 13 624
Chantelle
fh Also Changing Name
Chantelle, on December 8, 2020 at 4:59 PM

When we marry, I’d like my last name to be just Lozano. We would like his to be just Lozano as well (chop off the Chavez) so our last names will be exactly the same What are the logistics of this?...

Lynnie, Dec 9, 2020 4 146
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Finance pay car off first or save for wedding?!? Help!!
MARIA, on December 8, 2020 at 1:58 PM

First off i would like to thank you for your time and all opinions are welcomed. Because of covid my September wedding 2020 turned into 2021. Next year if everything goes well i should be able to pay...

MARIA, Dec 9, 2020 12 333
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Postpone Wedding?
Candace, on December 9, 2020 at 10:24 AM

Hello, all! I am wondering if I should postpone my wedding. We are scheduling to be married January 21, the day after President Elect Joe Biden will take office. I am in high hopes that a shut down...

Katelyn, Dec 9, 2020 10 235
Danielle
Covid postponment and slightly bitter in a red state
Danielle, on December 8, 2020 at 12:08 AM

First, I want to start off with times are difficult. Everyone is making hard choices. To postpone, to elope instead, to micro wedding, to go ahead as planned and hope for the best, or to cancel. A lot...

Karla, Dec 9, 2020 27 1,045 1
Tina & Darren
Start Planning early
Tina & Darren, on December 8, 2020 at 2:00 PM

Too EARLY!!! My wedding again is Nov 6,2021...I started on all the big stuff first including my bm dresses....i'm sick of folks telling I'm doing thing to fast...technically I have 10 months .....am I...

Amber, Dec 9, 2020 19 285
Danielle
Buffet dinner with plated salad
Danielle, on November 16, 2016 at 1:34 PM

What are your thoughts on a buffet dinner that starts with a plated salad? My caterer offers this at no additional charge and I'm on the fence. Has anyone been to a wedding where this was done? What...

Michelle, Dec 8, 2020 20 985
Hiedi
moh backed out
Hiedi, on December 6, 2020 at 2:26 PM

Looking to get other peoples input. This morning my MOH told be she is backing out of the wedding (10-9-21). She says it’s financial reasons and I understand that she is one of my best friends so I...

Florida Marlins, Dec 8, 2020 17 369
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Wedding Budgeting/cost Savings Tips
Claire, on December 7, 2020 at 8:49 PM

What are your favorite ways to save money for your wedding? Venue, alcohol, plus cater will add up quick! I would love to hear what everyone else has thought of! Thank you and congrats on your...

Florida Marlins, Dec 8, 2020 11 174
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May have to cancel my wedding..
Future Mrs. Lowder, on December 7, 2020 at 9:21 AM

Hey y’all.. Our wedding is next Saturday, but due to reasons I’d rather not disclose, we may have to cancel our wedding. We’ll know by this Friday 12/11 wether or not we’ll have to do this.. We been...

Lynnie, Dec 8, 2020 4 295
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Stressful wedding planning?
Dana, on December 5, 2020 at 11:17 PM

Hows everyone's wedding planning coming with Corona in the way???

Tina & Darren, Dec 8, 2020 34 318 1
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