Discussions from Planning

Which are you doing passed appetizers or food stations in your cocktail hour? If you are doing multiple stations are you having enough for each guest, or are you doing enough for about 80% of your...

My FH and I were thinking about having an earlier wedding. Not like very early, but like later in the morning, closer to lunch, we haven't decided on a timeline yet. What are your thoughts on an early...

So I would kind of like matching outfits for getting ready photos and I liked the idea of silk pajamas shorts, but I don't really want to spend that much more $$ (my BM gifts will...

Interested in knowing what everyone's Plan B is or was, just in case your original date didn't work out. My wedding isn't until Feb. 14, but my venue messaged me recently, letting us know that there's...

Hi, Everyone - I just need to vent, I wish wedding planning wouldn't be so stressful. Up to a few days ago, my fiancé and I had no issues and the wedding planning was smooth sailing. Unfortunately,...

Hi everyone! I'm having trouble coming up with a good hashtag! My fiancé's last name is Harmon. Thanks in advance 😊

Hi there everyone! First of all I just want to preface this by saying that I feel like a truly horrible person for doing this but I feel in my heart that it might be the right thing for me to do,...

My husband and I got married in April on our original date. It was important to us that we didn’t postpone the ceremony so rather we just postponed the reception and had a small intimate ceremony with...

Hey everyone! I have a couple extra girls that I want to include in my wedding, and since my wedding is outside there won’t be candle lighters, so what should I call them, and how can I ask them in a...

We’re having a small backyard wedding (26 guests) and have booked our photographer for 4 hours. She sent a tentative timeline that looks like this: 3:00 arrival - details and getting ready photos 3:45...

Should we do engagement photos with our wedding photographer? It would cost us $300 to do the photos. We are already paying $2,700 for the wedding photos. I am getting a bit anxious...

I’m just super sad and needed to vent in a place where I know other brides understand. Our original date was planned for November 7, 2020. Due to some personal reasons, mostly my medical, we had a...

Hey all! Is there anyone out there that shares the same date as us? I am a little worried about COVID and how it might affect the day. Anyone else out there feel the same? If you do have the same...

Ugh today my venue is having a meeting to decide the fate of their 2021 weddings, and I'm getting so nervous. Depending on how bad COVID is in my area, greatly depends on what their going to do for...

My family and friend list is fairly small (about 30-40 people), but my fiancé’s moms family is big and she wants to invite everyone (including children of cousins that my fiancé hasn’t talked to in...

Hi all! I just got engaged and want to start planning, but I feel like I need to crowdsource some ideas. Has anyone on here planned/dealt with holding small ceremonies when your parents are from...

Do you have to have a final headcount to get a caterer or do you need an estimate? Thanks!

A generous friend offered to bake the desserts and cake for our wedding which we graciously accepted. She is a phenomenal baker and would do a great job. She however only does it on the side and...

Ahhhh, my engagement photos got postponed 3 times because of the weather and my photographer has been the absolute about it. Of course I’m stressing hair and makeup and outfits but also money. Is it...