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Sarah
How to stop thinking about wedding planning?
Sarah, on January 14, 2020 at 12:55 PM

Ok, this might sound crazy – but I am having SUCH trouble turning off the wedding planning part of my brain. I'm SO excited for my wedding, but I feel like it's all I ever think about! I have trouble...

Kaitlin, Jan 14, 2020 17 1,173
nikki
2020 wedding 👰🏽
nikki, on January 20, 2019 at 8:26 PM

Hello everyone who’s getting married in 2020 and what you are working on.... I already book my venue last year now working on catering and photography!!!

Gabriela, Jan 14, 2020 298 4,871 2
Danica
Microweddings!
Danica, on January 11, 2020 at 12:27 PM

We’re having a microwedding. Since this is my second and his first, we’re both in our 40’s and don’t want to have a big crowd focus on him (I’m good either way), we went with a small wedding. One...

Kristen, Jan 14, 2020 15 340 1
Kate
European Destination Wedding for 20k or Less?
Kate, on July 22, 2019 at 5:43 PM

Hey all! My fiancé and I have decided to have a destination wedding, which makes sense for us (we’re both based overseas for work) and for the vibe we’re going for (smaller, intimate, less concerned...

Kristen, Jan 14, 2020 7 3,893 1
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January 1st Wedding?
Kayla, on January 13, 2020 at 1:10 AM

I really like the idea of a January 1st wedding, it's an easy date for hubs to remember and we could do a Christmasy or winter theme. The only thing I am worried about is, this is kind of national...

Andrea, Jan 13, 2020 8 1,374
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Carnival Cruise Wedding Prices
Paula, on July 15, 2018 at 6:52 PM

Hello all! My FIance and I were thinking of having our wedding aboard a Carnical Cruise Ship. I was looking at the prices online and noticed the Carnival Classic packages range between the prices of...

Leah, Jan 13, 2020 8 1,214
Josie
Coworker bridesmaid
Josie, on January 11, 2020 at 5:24 PM

I'm not a person with a lot of close friends for bridesmaids. I have my best friend who will be my maid of honor, but I have become pretty close to one of my coworkers. Weve only worked together for 6...

, Jan 13, 2020 4 885
FutureMrs92317
Alternative for appetizer for cocktail hour??
FutureMrs92317, on April 24, 2017 at 10:24 AM

We will have a sweets table but looking to add an alternative for an appetizer or snack for a 5pm cocktail hour.

Laressa, Jan 12, 2020 17 633
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Colorado Wedding Venues Under $2000?
Paige, on April 9, 2014 at 1:58 AM

Hello! My fiance and I are trying to find an outdoorsy option for our wedding, problem is most venues are either insanely far away or expensive or they're reasonable for the site free but require that...

Lisa, Jan 12, 2020 13 10,925 3
Lenaya
Mom as Maid of Honor?
Lenaya, on February 13, 2019 at 6:49 PM

Have any of you had your mom as your maid of honor? I am close with my mom and have really been thinking of giving her that special title in my wedding party. If you've done it, any advice is...

Rachel, Jan 12, 2020 6 1,412
Scarlet
Fiance doesn't want some of my (close) friends to come and want equal number of invites
Scarlet, on January 10, 2020 at 4:33 PM

My fiance is slightly less social than I am and have fewer friends. He wants to have equal number of friends invited: for example, if he is inviting only 10 people whom I don't already know of, he...

Pirate & 60s Bride, Jan 12, 2020 10 1,046
Amarelis
What to wear to venue tours?
Amarelis, on July 29, 2016 at 4:36 PM

Hi all FH and I are going on our first round of venue tours tomorrow. I'm really excited and nervous. I don't know what the dress code is for situations like this and I was wondering if you all could...

Betheny, Jan 12, 2020 44 14,231 1
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Lesbian wedding
Ana, on February 8, 2013 at 7:57 PM

Anyone lesbians in here?? My partner and I are planning an October wedding... She's not sure what she should wear... She's not a butch but she's not a girly girl either..

Nikki, Jan 11, 2020 20 582
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Burgers as a main course!! Yikes!
Hannah, on January 9, 2018 at 10:13 PM

So thoughts on burgers for the main course at the reception. Tacky much? Thoughts? On a tight budget so thinking outside the box. Ideas are highly welcome and we have a huge smoker 😊

Shawna, Jan 11, 2020 33 4,691
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Non-catered banquet hall
ToniaG, on May 28, 2014 at 10:36 PM

Does anyone out there know of a facility that I can rent where I can bring my own food? A catered venue is just too expensive.

Daphne, Jan 11, 2020 10 1,584
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Is it possible to have a wedding under $10,000 in NJ/NYC?
Rose, on March 29, 2017 at 10:59 PM

Is it possible to have a wedding under $10,000 in NJ/NYC/PA? I want to invite 100 people. I really can't justify dropping $30,000 on ONE night when it can go towards a house, etc. If...

Frances, Jan 11, 2020 121 4,373 1
Savannah
i hate my wedding venue :(
Savannah, on January 10, 2020 at 12:02 PM

For some background, my fiancé and I have been together for 6 years. We are raising two girls together, one 8 & one 3. We have owned our own home for the last 4 years. This wedding is happening...

Alexandra, Jan 11, 2020 17 858
Amy
Mountain or Beach Wedding?
Amy, on December 27, 2019 at 12:54 AM

I'm open to hearing your opinions. I understand that my fiance and I ultimately have to decide on our location, but please share your thoughts. Should we get married on his family's gorgeous mountain...

Amy, Jan 10, 2020 22 843
Mandi
So i Live in Stars Hollow...
Mandi, on January 10, 2020 at 12:57 PM

Not quite. But that's the general dynamic of the town if you've seen Gilmore Girls. I get to work today, and someone had already been in. Y'all, I dont have any plans to invite them to the wedding....

Haley, Jan 10, 2020 8 284
Katie
Anyone having else having free slurpees on a 7/11 wedding?
Katie, on January 10, 2020 at 12:04 AM

My dad and 2 uncles thought it would be funny to take a selfie in front of 711.

Destiny, Jan 10, 2020 8 428
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