Discussions from Planning

How many of us out here have a fiance who is nit picking every decision for what is the cheapest? its driving me crazy that all he is focusing on is money and most of our vendors are reasonable and...

How long should you get a newly issued baptismal certificate before your wedding day? Im getting married in California and im not sure if its 3 or 6 months or it just depends on the parish? Thanks!

Is there a website like Shutterfly or Minted that do RSVP cards that say something like “we have reserved __ seat(s) in your honor". I know you can do invitations on those websites but I need to...

Hi ladies, so I’m actually wondering if someone can explain how invitations/meal cards work. Do I need a meal card for each individual person, if so can they just check/initial what they want? Should...

I'm looking at booking a venue soon, and there are some great options during the summer 2019. I'll be turning 30 in May 2019 and my fiance will be turning 30 in July 2019. The venue we like the most...

Hello! So I have made proposal boxes for all 8 of my girls and I wanted to invite them all out for a brunch and give them the boxes. I am scratching my head on how to get them together. At first I...

I was booked at a new wedding venue in my town called Noah's event Venue and was excited about being one of their first weddings in the new venue. This week, with 4 months to go to our wedding they...

I am going to send our wedding invites tomorrow and WOW I am so anxious. Did anyone else feel this way? It's just.... soo... real. now LOL

Has anyone dealt with a bridal party who dont know each other? My cousin and sister in law somewhat know eachother. 2 of my other bridesmaids know know of eachother through mutual friends but have...

I'm planning on both a mail and on-line RSVP option. Does the RSVP wedding wire link allow customization so they can indicate their transportation needs as well?

Hmm I thought I was going to order my invitations, til I got to this part..Does anyone know which finish would be better? also what exactly is a "linen" finish/how does it compare to regular matte?...

Our dj gave us his fee but said he was willing to negotiate. I’d like to ask for $200 less, but don’t want to be insulting. If you’ve had a dj/vendor offer to negotiate how have you handled it?...

Anyone with September 29, 2018 wedding, or dates around this, when are you ladies sending out your invitations???? Our caterer needs a headcount 3 weeks before the date, so we have RSVPs due August...

So my MOH (sister) is planning my bacheorette party. She asked my opinion on what fun activity I would like to do. Other events of the night will be a surprise. lol Any who, initially I told her I...

My wedding is September 14, 2019. I already sent out save the dates a couple mo the ago. I am reeeallly anxious to get these invitations out asap and ask for the soonest possible RSVP date. I’m also...

So my fiance and I are planning a wedding for July 2020. We want to keep the cost down and set a mutual budget for $10,000. I am beginning to find out that either that is unrealistic or I just...

Long story short I was recently diagnosed with cancer and have crazy medical bills coming my way. My husband was asked to be in a wedding as a groomsman to someone he hasnt talked to in YEARS and is...

Can anyone tell me what portion of a wedding is subject to sales tax in Texas? Catering? Officiant? Music? Wedding consultant services?

Hi everyone, We are narrowing down our venues and most allow us to bring our own alcohol. How do I figure out how much alcohol to buy and how much it would cost for an open bar for 5 hours? I heard...

Help! I've been sick since my Batchelorette Party on Saturday (nearly a week ago) and now, a day before the wedding, I've lost my voice and it doesn't feel like it's coming back soon. What do I do?...