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Kiran
Venue will not return a deposit for event 10 months away
Kiran, on July 11, 2023 at 7:13 PM

I am very upset as we booked for an event for 2024 and we were told many times we have the right to cxl up until a few weeks before event but now that we are trying to cxl the vendor declines to give...

Kimberly, Jul 12, 2023 4 298
Katie
Counting the days.
Katie, on July 6, 2023 at 12:43 PM

50 more days until the big day. I'm so excited and nervous at the same time. I'm soooo stressed tho 😫😫 I can't wait for it to be over already.I pray the next 50 days go be super fast.

Katie, Jul 11, 2023 7 157 1
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Couples getting married on July 29, 2023
Jacqueline, on October 28, 2022 at 5:00 PM

Hello everyone , this is exactly what happened the day of our engagement photos .

Nf, Jul 11, 2023 2 129
Candi
How do you explain to the groom you want a certain venue?
Candi, on September 13, 2021 at 9:26 PM

I’m some how very intrigued by a venue and it’s history! I feel a connection. He has no idea what he wants.. but I’m drawn to this place. It’s affordable too and perfect for our small wedding. So I’m...

JackiMaurice, Jul 11, 2023 28 380
Lisa
Spray tan...has anyone here ever gotten one?
Lisa, on April 30, 2010 at 11:22 AM

Did you like it, or regret it? Would you suggest it to a friend or talk them out of it? My sister is offering to pay for a spray tan for me since I can't actually go tanning. I burn, peel, stay red...

Amanda, Jul 11, 2023 20 2,887
J
Is Wedding Rule legit ?
Jennifer, on October 14, 2021 at 1:03 AM

Has anyone worked with them in the past ? I have been searching for a wedding planner for the last two weeks and I came across this site. I noticed that their editors/writers look funky. They looked...

al, Jul 10, 2023 7 781
Kiera
Flower girls and getting ready
Kiera, on July 9, 2023 at 10:21 AM

Hello. My wedding is in February and it’s destination. I have a little girl who will be 3 at the wedding. She will be my flower girl. I’m wondering what happens when getting ready for the wedding....

Ashlee, Jul 10, 2023 7 169 1
S
Musician meal for 3 hrs?
SnailedCaracol, on July 10, 2023 at 9:17 AM

Hi everyone, We're getting married in Spain this October and we just realised that we have not clarified with our music bands whether a meal is expected. Our wedding is very small, just 24 guests and...

Jacks, Jul 10, 2023 3 81
Kathleen
Why don't people RSVP!?
Kathleen, on December 6, 2013 at 1:08 PM

I just want to complain. My invite list is 165 people, but my target # is 145. However, looks like I will have a fun wedding of 22 people. I am SO tired of people saying, "well, you know I will be...

Rachel, Jul 10, 2023 28 3,477 1
Jen
Wedding
Jen, on July 10, 2023 at 11:56 AM

Any Dj available

Lisa, Jul 10, 2023 1 23
Hannah
Average Budget/guest List
Hannah, on July 7, 2023 at 10:51 AM

Hi, guys. Despite our planned date is not until 2026, I am one to do my research and planning ahead of time to prevent dilemmas when the time comes but we are planning on keeping our guest list short...

Kimberly, Jul 10, 2023 10 267
C
How to include 3 sons
Chantel, on July 10, 2023 at 8:33 AM

I have one biological son who is 18 , and 2 step sons one is 28 and one who is 27, my husband and myself are having a vow renewal. I want to incorporate all three of the kids . Besides sand ceremony...

Kimberly, Jul 10, 2023 4 113
A
Pagan officiant
Amber , on February 22, 2017 at 2:19 PM

Ladies can anyone recommend a pagan officiant. Or at least an officiant willing to do a handfasting ceremony ?? 108 days to go and I'm so lost :-/

Nat, Jul 9, 2023 10 8,034 2
Katie
Cocktail Hour Help
Katie, on July 7, 2023 at 11:09 PM

So I have a dumb question for everyone. What're you doing for cocktail hour and do I have to make all those appitizers?😂 Because our catering doesn't do appitizers.

Katie, Jul 8, 2023 6 203
MrsC
How Involved Are Your Grooms in the wedding planning?
MrsC, on February 21, 2023 at 11:34 PM

Are they in on every stage of planning or just when asked their opinions? Are they enthusiastic participants or they like, "where do I pick up the tux and what time should I be at the church?" I am...

Alexis, Jul 8, 2023 38 689
Bally
What does this song mean to you? Help!
Bally, on December 17, 2011 at 8:11 PM

Hi Ladies, I am planning to use this song for my first dance: 'A Beautiful Mess' from Jason Mraz: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8Mz_kyRlWY Now, we love the song and some of the lyrics such as 'what...

Kim, Jul 8, 2023 8 637
Christine
Couples getting married on September 7, 2023
Christine, on March 5, 2023 at 12:02 AM

Hey All!! I just thought it was so cute that this app sets up a way to message your wedding date twins! Where is everyone in the planning process?? Cause personally I feel super behind. But also, any...

Rhondayalex, Jul 7, 2023 4 67
Teresa
Guestlist/addresses
Teresa, on June 22, 2023 at 4:17 AM

It's been a struggle but I have all the address of our guest for our invitations except 12 people. 6 on my side and 6 on FH's side. Whew!!! I am so glad. Our guestlist is 112. My Wedding dress hanger...

Teresa, Jul 6, 2023 6 108
MRSDarlin' Now!
"renting" cufflinks?
MRSDarlin' Now!, on May 6, 2010 at 11:29 AM

Helloooo.. just a quick question to anyone out there who may know.. when you rent a tux from someplace like Mens Warehouse.. do you keep the cufflinks? Or are you renting those? Does anyone know?

Lachlan, Jul 6, 2023 4 2,809
Jane
Looking For An Accurate Psychic For Party
Jane, on July 6, 2023 at 4:18 AM

Hey everyone! I know it’s an odd question and kind of a long shot but! I’ve always been into spiritual stuff and I wanna have a good psychic for my friend’s bachelorette party. Does anyone have an...

Jane, Jul 6, 2023 26
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