Discussions from Planning

I've been struggling with this... so far I got them each a pair of nice earrings, a robe, personalized tote, and a hair piece. Is there anything else I should add such as slippers, perfume, etc.? I...

Hi everybody! So I am reaching out with a question about when to send invites. We are having our wedding in Minnesota this October, but my family is in Illinois and his is from South Dakota and most...

Dear all, I need desperate help: we are planning our wedding for late July and it will be a family planned and run wedding with about 200 guests on my family's farm. We have a lot of work to do to...

Hi there, We are looking at various options for video and really want the "raw" footage. The one we are most likely going with comes with raw footage but they say that's about 1-2 hours of film. This...

Shout-out to my May 5th couples, has a nice ring to it

Ok so don’t come for me cause I’ve read all the articles and I know what people are going to say about etiquette…. Anywho me and fiancé decided to get married a bit earlier than first planned ( our...

Anybody has suggestions on how to tell vendors I need more time; i haven’t made my decision yet. I know the wait is excruciating for them to, but i cannot rush to make that decision nor do i want to...

Hello, Can anyone recommend reputable sites for someone to get an officiant license online?

Heyyyyy wedding date twins!! 🤗🤗 I know we have a wayssss to go lol but I wanted to check in and see how far along you all are in the planning process?? 😃 I just have my venue and caterer booked so far...

So I just got the contract for my rentals and I was reading through it and in bold it says "IMPORTANT: chairs typically have a capacity limit of 250 lbs.; DO NOT PLACE OR ALLOW MORE THAN 250 LBS. ON...

I’m planning a wedding shower for my sister and she is planning to invite 60 guests. I’m thinking the shower will be in January (wedding in March) 2024 but I’m running in to the issue that majority of...

Hi everyone! I need some advice on transportation and whether or not it's needed. Our wedding is at a barn venue in a city that's about 30-45 minutes south of most of our guests homes. The drive to...

I’m looking to book a month-of/day-of wedding coordinator. What are things I should be looking for when booking a wedding coordinator? Any red flags I should look for whether in speaking to or...

I feel like I'm all over the place! I am using the planning check list from here and I have my own list of priorities that I'm trying to keep on track with. We are getting married Oct 21 and our theme...

Hi everyone! We are having a wedding on a weekday of next year. Either looking at March 2024 or May 2024. Our budget is $5000 but might go up to $8000 (no more than that). Our wedding...

Ok so we live in Minnesota and we getting married in Puerto Rico. So I want to include a little note with my save the dates that people do not need to feel obligated to come or even owe us an...

I am going to start touring venues later this week and the next few weeks after that and I am wondering what questions I should ask and what I can expect. I already did some research myself and have...

I need help advice what to do if the wedding venue you hired for wedding isn’t coming thru when signing contract they promised all kinds of things saying it would be like stress free because it’s a...

Today is yet another day that I am completely frustrated that my FH doesn't care about the wedding, and doesn't think he has to. It would be one thing if it were an event that had nothing to do with...

Planning a wedding for my friend