Discussions from Planning

Can I see your save the date photos fir inspo please?

My fiancé and I put a deposit down on our venue a while back but due to recent family issues and the wedding creeping up there in price we are looking to do a destination wedding instead. We are not...

Just wanted to get y’all’s thoughts/experiences with having or not having a videographer? Any regrets not having one? Or love the video so much you couldn’t live without it?? Thanks in advance

Hello Everyone! I just booked my beautiful venue right on the water in the Florida keys. They informed us that we are not allowed to have glass outdoors that guests can pick up or that could be...

Hi Ladies! Is anyone having a guitarist for your ceremony? Im looking for one that’s around $400 but it seems like the average cost is $600 for 2 hours. Is it unreasonable to think this...

The wedding isn’t until October 18, 2025 and I already got the wedding venue booked for the date since they fill up quick. I’m wondering if it’s too early to start planning out everything and pick the...

Hello!!! I am getting married on June 2024 and I want a destination wedding in Sorrento! Anyone here has any recommendations on the planning? Thanks 🤍

Hey everyone my name is Shay! ❤️ Congratulations on your engagements!!!! 🎉🎉 How far are y’all in the planning ?

We are getting married 2/4/24💕 We have a dilemma🤔 We are having a small bridal party (2 & 2) because we are going away to Las Vegas and only inviting immediate family and a couple close friends....

I am having my ceremony and reception at the same venue. During the time the ceremony location is being flipped for the reception we will be having a cocktail hour and providing alcohol. Following the...

Can you get married at church first then have the court wedding the following week?

Hello! My fiance and I just got engaged in May 2022 and we are finally starting to talk about wedding plans. Besides setting on a date and venue, where do we even go from here? Does anyone have any...

I have my photographer for 9 hours. Should we have them come at noon, for a 3pm ceremony? That would be 12pm-9pm, seems like a long time. Or should they come before 12pm, maybe 10am, when we are...

Trying to decide if I should go with 4/20/24 or 4/27/24 for reference, the state I will be having my wedding in has legalized po.t I love the ring 4/20/24 but I’m unsure if people around my age will...

I’m in a wedding I ordered the dress ( I hate) was told I can wear any shoe I want. Had my dress fitted for three inch heels. Then the bride decided she wants us all in flats. It’s going to cost me...

Is anyone getting a day of coordinator? I’m on the fence about it. With our venue, they will set up all the tables, chairs, and linens inside the reception as well as the benches outside for the...

Inflation sucks. With the increase in price of everything, my fiancé and I are starting to rethink our wedding plans. An idea I came up with is a wedding weekend - rent a mansion, invite our closest...

Hey! I know it's a ways away, but I am super excited about my Nov. 4 2022 wedding! I just wanted to give a shout-out to all of you! Less than a year and a half away!

First, I should mention that we are (very young!) "sixty-somethings", married 38 years, who are planning a "convalidation" ceremony. This is a Catholic marriage service for couples who were married...