please Help!!!!!

Ummm I am very much confused as well. Is it a joke because he might go to jail because you really love those colors and will disagree or is he really going to jail. Are you trying to add weed to your theme?

Just how to handle the stress of the situation...I'm gaining so much weight and have already picked out the dress

He really might be going to jail and we're both so stressed but I'm still trying to plan out our wedding. I'm not sure if he dislikes the theme or if he's just so stressed that he's lashing out. I'm also not adding weed to the theme

If your future spouse may be going to jail, you might consider putting your wedding planning on hold as that (to me) is much more important. Also, I would think that possibly going to jail is extremely stressful so that indeed may be why he's lashing out.

If your spouse doesn't like the colors/theme, can't you compromise and pick something else?

Why are you calling the police on your FH and still planning on marrying him? That seems counterproductive...

Say what?! .......

If you are calling the cops on him, why are you marrying him? I'm so confused! Is this post even real?

I'm now wondering if I should put the plans on hold or call the wedding off altogether...but thank you everyone you're all really helpful. I'm sorry if this post is a mess as I'm feeling really frantic and stressed. In case you're all wondering my fiance assaulted someone who broke into our apartment thinking it was theirs...he also has something else going on that he won't tell me about but I can tell it's bad and I just want everything sorted out before I marry him.