Hey guys,
So I am experiencing some current issues involving plus ones. Long story short, my fiancé and I are paying for our wedding ourselves, we can only have a certain number of guests so we applied a strict rule to our wedding party that we will not give you a plus one unless you were seeing said partner prior to our one year till the wedding date. I’ll also add we are all long time friends, so it’s not like any of the party doesn’t know anyone at our wedding, otherwise different story.
So, we have passed the one year mark and now having issues. One of my bridesmaids broke up with her SO a few months back, and I’m learning they recently got back together. Way after the deadline. She has yet to even tell me that she was dating her ex again, I’m hearing this from her sister who is also in my party. The sister is raising issue that I’m not giving the other a plus one, even though the guest list has been finalized for nearly a month (with notice to the party) and allotted plus ones have already been given and the original bridesmaid never told me they’re back together. The sister is saying it’s because I don’t like him, which is true, I do loathe and have told the bridesmaid so when she told me they broke up (called him out for being emotionally abusive.) Even still, she is past the deadline. Any advice on how I should handle this situation? I plan on talking to the bridesmaid, and have already put the sister in place for assuming rules didn’t apply to them and making it a bigger deal.
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