One of my bridesmaids recently (last week) got out of her 4 year relationship, and I am not sure how to handle the plus one situation or if she'll even want to bring a date or friend (I highly doubt she'd get into a relationship in a few months anyways). I don't really want to talk to her about the situation of plus ones yet since it's still so raw.
I have my invites and calligrapher booked so when I bring it up I want to make sure I am being considerate of the situation, but I would like advice on if they need to be addressed to her and guest or not? The cost and space in the wedding isn't an issue, and honestly I wouldn't mind if she brought a date or just a friend, the issue is the rehearsal dinner. The rehearsal is only the wedding party with their plus ones (all married or in serious relationships) and immediate family, so it's a tight guest list and over $100 per plate. My FH and I are leaning to still extend a plus one for the wedding, but not rehearsal dinner since it's so intimate. Would it be rude to offer her a plus one but only for the wedding? Also the rehearsal dinner invitation is coming separately. Any advice is appreciated!!