So I got married on 2/28/2021 and post wedding depression hit me hard just 2 days after and still going through it.
I feel very sad, empty and it's like now what? my wedding day was the best day of my life that I will forever miss, it just went by so so fast. I spent more time trying on my wedding dress in alteration more than I did on my wedding day.
The day went smooth but there is a few things I wish we had done differently but really the one that hurts the most is I wish the day was longer. I wish hubby and I had more time for ourselves. Now I think maybe we could have just eloped.
My room is still full of stuff from the wedding and I feel very sad to pack them all up. I lost sleep picking those stuff up and trying to make everything look perfect so I'm not ready to let go of anything.
We had hand Sanitizer on each table that I picked very cute bottles and labels for, hubby said let's donate them but I have been keeping them in my car not ready to let go. I spent days and nights finding that stuff and putting together.
I keep thinking about having a vow renewal in 5 years so I get to wear my dress again or taking the dress on honeymoon so maybe we could have a photoshoot or I can spend the day wearing it. I just don't know if any of that will make me feel better that our wedding day just went by really fast.
We did not serve alcohol so lots of people left early which made me regret invite those who were not very close to me. like did you really leave early because there wasn't alcohol?
To all future brides, please enjoy your planning and I do recommend that you do a photoshoot for you and your husband the next day or a few weeks after the wedding so you get to have a day just for you and him and enjoy yourselves . My husband did recommend doing that and wish that I listened to him.
And for those who are already married, how did you deal with the post weeding depression, and when did I go away? and did you get to wear your wedding dress again ?