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Kmess
Master October 2015

Postcard thank you notes. Thoughts?

Kmess, on December 19, 2015 at 6:39 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 15

DH and I just received a thank you note for a wedding gift (we were not able to attend the wedding since it was a week after our own). The thank you note was actually a small photo postcard with a wedding photo on the front. There is only room for them to write about 2 sentences on the back. I feel a little odd about this. Maybe I should just be happy to get a thank you note since not everyone does them anymore (even though they should) but it seems very informal and a little cheap. The funny thing is that their save the dates weren't even postcards, they were nice and in envelopes. Also, the postcard format for a thank you note allows anyone to read the note and see what we gave them as a gift. It's just a little strange. What do you guys think, are thank you note postcards an etiquette faux pas or nah?

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Latest activity by Nicolio, on December 20, 2015 at 6:41 PM
  • Elyse
    Master September 2015
    Elyse ·
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    I don't care what someone spends on a TY note as long as I receive one. I can't imagine being able to write a decent note on one though so that stinks. Who are you worried about seeing the note? Postal workers are slammed at this time of year so I doubt they read or even care about post cards.

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  • nursetraveler87
    VIP October 2016
    nursetraveler87 ·
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    I guess I agree with Elyse that some type of thank you note is better than nothing at all. If it were me, I wouldn't go that direction because of the cramped space to write the thank you. I wouldn't worry about the post office seeing the thank you note with as many parcels and letters that cross their path everyday, they likely don't care!

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    With the dismal state of thank you note etiquette at the moment, I'm happy to get any of them, but I think they do need an envelope...

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  • Finally mrs.jkr
    Master June 2025
    Finally mrs.jkr ·
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    I got a postcard thank you note and it was lovely. It had room for more than 2 sentences though. I thought it was nice because now I have a picture of them as a keepsake too.

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  • KitandKaboodle
    Master November 2016
    KitandKaboodle ·
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    Trust me, a post card is better than an email, text message or a jibjab message any day.

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  • S&P
    Master January 2017
    S&P ·
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    Any handwritten note is acceptable to me. Maybe they didn't realize how much room they would have to write a note when they ordered them?

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  • So.Many.Questions
    Expert September 2016
    So.Many.Questions ·
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    I personally love both postcards and pictures, so I think theyre cute. If the note is handwritten and not just a generic typed message, I think it's fine.

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  • SpringBride16
    Super March 2016
    SpringBride16 ·
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    I agree with everyone else. A thank you note is a thank you note. Like what did you expect a novel?! Personally it's not a big deal.

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  • Reggie
    Master September 2015
    Reggie ·
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    I got one recently that was similar, just a bunch of photos and no personal message. I feel like people really want to see their pics or something. But honestly, if I wanted to see their photos so bad I would look online. What I want is to be properly thanked. If I don't get a thank you note from someone, I'm sorry but that will likely be the last gift they ever get from me since they obviously don't appreciate it.

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  • Susan
    VIP September 2016
    Susan ·
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    I think it is fine. So many people don't send Thank You's anyomore. I agree that a postcard is better than nothing. And I like that it was an actual picture.

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  • L
    Master March 2016
    lovin' life ·
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    I agree. I have been to several weddings and a bridal shower in the past year or so, and I haven't received any thank you notes. I would be very happy to get a postcard with a picture on it.

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  • JamieLynn
    Master June 2016
    JamieLynn ·
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    As long as its handwritten and personal, I'm okay with it.

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  • OG Kristen
    Master October 2015
    OG Kristen ·
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    Honesty, we did post cards and I didn't see a problem with it until I saw this post. There was plenty of room for me to personalize them and I worked really hard on them. It shouldn't matter what kind of thank you note you receive as long as one is written.

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  • Kelli
    Master September 2015
    Kelli ·
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    I think that sounds cute! As long as they wrote something personal, even if just 2 sentences, I'm ok with it.

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  • Nicolio
    Devoted April 2016
    Nicolio ·
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    My STDs were postcards, my RSVP for the invitation is a postcards, and I was planning on postcards for thank you cards. Whoopsie! I just thought it was a cute idea.

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