Postponed

I don't think the real date being on the gifts is an issue at all, especially since they're bridal party gifts. You could also DIY it say the new date by crossing out the old one in a clever or funny way.

If they are decals and it means a lot to you that they are correct you could always try nail polish mover (pure acetone is best) on a cotton swab to remove the decal of the date! If they are engraved I would keep and give as is!

I agree with pp with giving it to them as is, but also completely love the idea of doing the cross out of the old date and inserting the new date. As for your dad's handkerchief, I think I'd get him a new one, but also give him the original.

I also have this situation as a June to December bride. I actually spoke to all of my vendors on Etsy and while they couldn't do a return/exchange, they all gave me coupon's for the replacement item which in some cases made the new one 50% off. It's all about communication and what your're wanting for your memories. We are honestly going to embrace our new date as our date, we love it and I'm going to have the few things I had personalized changed to reflect it.

I would still give to them, it will be a date to remember. A story behind the date before your wedding day. You can even type a cute little note and tag it to each gift to make it even more personal and humorous. Why spend more money on something you couldn't control?

Hi Dana,

I'm so sorry you had to postpone your wedding! I definitely agree with some of the suggestions above.

There are several ongoing conversations re: what to do with your dated decor items on the WeddingWire forums. The overall vibe is that your original date is part of your story.

- Re-purchasing items with dates after postponing wedding

- What to do with wedding decor with different date?

- What to do about dated favors

Hope this helps! I'm wishing you the best of luck with your August wedding!

We are using everything that says June 7th as we are still exchanging vows that day. The reception decor will still say June 7th and murals on the floor or wall even though we are looking at September 20th for a reception. Even if you are not getting married on May 8th, I would still use all of what I have purchased.

I would definitely use the original décor, because it was your original date and although effected by COVOD-19 it would still be part of your wedding story.