So we thought we were in the clear and wouldn't have to do anything, but FH's pastor made us take an online survey that basically asked about our family life growing up, how we feel about our relationship, money, kids, health, habits, how we make decisions/argue, etc. and then we are gonna meet with him to go over it. Not gonna lie, I am really not in the mood to do this. To the point where I would've paid a non-denominational officiant if I knew this. I know that me doing the ratings on the survey was heavily influenced by the last year planning this wedding so it's not even like we have most of these issues without the stress of a wedding. Like I think about anything we argued about before wedding planning and it was mostly house chores and who does what to contribute. I think it'll be helpful to talk about how we will combine our money after the wedding but pretty much everything else I'd rather not talk about. It's either gonna go really well or really bad.. How did it go for everyone else doing this type of pre-wedding counseling? Did it help or make you both more upset/mad/frustrated?
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