Hi all!
I'm thinking a lot lately about pre-wedding events. You know, bridal shower, bachelorette party, etc. Growing up, I never knew anyone to have a bachelorette party, and in fact had never heard the term until I was an adult. Even then, in the 80s and 90s, that wasn't as big of a thing as it is now. So, when I started planning my own wedding (many, many years later), I wondered if my bridal party would be interested in that kind of event, or not.
A bridal shower seemed pretty standard to me, as every wedding I've ever attended or participated in had one of those. But now I find myself wondering if I'll get one. I'm an older bride now, and sometimes I feel like I shouldn't want the same things that young brides want. I've got a good job, a home I love, and don't really qualify as "just starting out" even though FH and I are just starting our life together.
And yet, I find myself really wanting a bridal shower, and really hoping someone wants to throw me one.
I'd like to hear from all of you!! Especially the newly engaged brides/grooms out there!! What's your take on the pre-wedding events?? Will you be doing them? Why or why not?