Pre Wedding Honeymoon?

If you have the money to do it before the wedding then by all means! makes sense

It feels a little like cheating but it's what works with our schedule. If we don't do it in August I'm afraid I will be pregnant and then doing a trip away for few weeks will be years off with the timeline we are hoping for having kids.

Would it be terrible to wear the wedding bands on the trip lol...I want those "honeymoon" extras people toss in like bottles of wine and hotel upgrades

Do it whenever makes you happy and lets you enjoy it without stress!! we have ZERO idea when we will plan ours, we are hoping to get pregnant soon, originally we had hoped to already be by now but we go with the flow.

We aren't doing anything to stop it right now either. My fear is planning this early honeymoon (which will be right before the coed bachelor/ette trip) and then finding I'm pregnant right before we beginning all the fun!

That being said with my hormone condition we will be thrilled if we conceive soon...it's gonna be tough for us

I'd say go for it! And then maybe you can take a little staycation after the wedding. I see no problem with wearing your rings already, my FH has an e-ring and so if we wanted to we could probably get honeymoon perks (we live in Hawaii...it'd be easy to pretend haha!) so I'd go for it. But still try to do something small after the wedding. It would be a bummer to have your wedding then go home after and do nothing lol.

I think we might do a night or two down in Big Sur. We've been trying to get a trip together there for a couple of years and stuff just keeps getting in the way. There's an incredible resort there that would be perfect for a small honeymoon after the wedding! Great idea!