Although I saw another recent post kind of similar to this, hear me out.
I was interested in premarital counseling because all of our married friends rave on and on about how great it was and how much they learned about each other as well as themselves. But my FH is not for it at all. He thinks that we have a good relationship as is and our communication is great. I haven't been successful in my attempts to convince him of the benefits because he is sort of right, but I'm always one to say "don't knock it until you try it". So the fact that we've never been before, makes me think it could be beneficial or at least confirming of our ways now... but I don't see a negative in going honestly.
side note -- our officiant does not require premarital counseling, nor the chapel.
Who has skipped the whole premarital counseling route? Do you think you missed out on anything?
Those who have gone, do you think after going that it should be an absolute must?
#Lemmeknow =)
