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KatieMBY
VIP January 2018

Pro-bam: finally Forever Young

KatieMBY, on February 25, 2018 at 10:04 AM

Posted in Married Life 85

Hi WW! It's been a minute since I've posted, but I'm back to give some post-wedding advice, and share some amazing photos our photographer captured of our big day! H and I were married at The Vine in New Ulm, Texas in January 2018, and I'll tell you what? The overcast skies and mid-60 degree...

Hi WW! It's been a minute since I've posted, but I'm back to give some post-wedding advice, and share some amazing photos our photographer captured of our big day!

H and I were married at The Vine in New Ulm, Texas in January 2018, and I'll tell you what? The overcast skies and mid-60 degree weather were perfect for us and for photos! It made everything a little more comfortable. Unfortunately for H, nothing could really make him entirely comfortable, since he sprained his ankle just two days before the wedding! Poor thing! But, he was a trooper and you never heard him complain, even though his ankle was black and blue and barely fit into his shoe (that rhymed). I caught him crying a few times, but I'll go ahead and hope that was because he was so happy.

Venue - The Vine in New Ulm

Photog - Ron Dillon Photography

HMUA - BP Artistry by Brandy Palacious

Florals - Lisa Cushing with Petals by Design

Entertainment - SignatureEventx

Bar & Catering - Cafe Natalie

Coordinator - Lindsay Lucas with Lean on Me Events

Dress - Oleg Cassini for David's Bridal (organza lace ballgown WITH POCKETS)

Want some advice?

1) Smile! No matter what kind of mood you're in or how stressed you may be, smile constantly. You're likely to improve your own mood, and frankly, get some awesome pictures of you living your life with a smile on your face throughout the day.

2) Share a private moment with each your mother and the MOG (if you're close). Have a little moment to say "thank you" or just a couple minutes of the two of you before or after the "I do's" is something I found very special and important that day. Also, I gave my mom a little something and wrote her a card, and tears were definitely shed. Totally worth it.

3) Have a last dance with your new spouse. I cannot recommend this enough! This was my FAVORITE moment of the night, even with H barely being able to hobble around. He insisted that he didn't sit in a chair for this dance, LOL. It's probably the only moment you'll get, just the two of you, for the entire night, and IMO, it was something to look forward to. We sang along to the music, laughed, and our photographer captured our favorite pictures from this simple request.

4) Don't be afraid to get dirty! Seriously, the bottom of my dress was a bit brown by the end of the night, as were my feet after I slipped off my shoes to dance. You're only going to wear this dress once, so take the crazy picture in the dirty field, jump around on the dirty cobblestone in the courtyard. It doesn't matter! You can always clean the thing!

5) Biggest piece of advice? Let it all go, dude. Whatever you don't want to have happen probably will, but you may never know. For instance, I didn't even know that the table numbers were incorrectly placed by the coordinator's assistant until after dinner. Was I mad? Sure! But did everyone know where to sit and was the dinner delicious? Sure was! At the end of the night, this ended up being the only thing that happened that I wasn't fond of, but whatever. I got married to the best man I could ask for, even when half his foot was falling off.

PICCCCTURES!!

Getting my makeup done...cfb_898485.jpg

My groom and the most handsome groomsmencfb_898487.jpg

My stunning bridesmaids cfb_898489.jpg

Reading the letter H wrotecfb_898491.jpg

Leaving the bridal cottage for the first lookcfb_898493.jpg

WOOHOO, first look!cfb_898495.jpg

He cried (do a first look, y'all)cfb_898497.jpg

He wanted to see the whole thing.cfb_898499.jpg

Caught a nice momentcfb_898501.jpg

We couldn't sit still while we were waiting!cfb_898503.jpg

The chapelcfb_898505.jpg

My freaking perfect momcfb_898507.jpg

My dad will also denied he criedcfb_898509.jpg

The altarcfb_898511.jpg

Down the aislecfb_898515.jpg

Ceremonycfb_898517.jpg

WE DID IT (duh)cfb_898519.jpg

The barncfb_898521.jpg

Just gorgeouscfb_898523.jpg

The table arrangements cfb_898527.jpg

85 Comments

  • Mrs_Jenkins
    Devoted June 2018
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    BRB CRYING. You look GORGEOUS, and that last dance is perfectSmiley heart

    Congrats!

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  • KatieMBY
    VIP January 2018
    KatieMBY ·
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    Awww, thank you so much! The last dance was truly my fave part, next to the getting married part, haha.
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  • Malwen107
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    Malwen107 ·
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    One of my favorite BAM's I've seen here! I love your tattoo, and your advice was some I will carry with me into our big day!! Congrats.

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  • Kelsey
    Dedicated September 2018
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    You were a gorgeous bride! Everything looked beautiful!

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  • KatieMBY
    VIP January 2018
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    Aww, that’s so kind, thank you!!

    I wanted try and give pointers I haven’t seen before, but I’m sure I was somewhat repetitive. I’m so glad you enjoyed the bam. And my tattoo?! THANKS! It’s the one my mother wished I covered Smiley xd
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  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
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    Your pictures made me tear up!!! So gorgeous, I can see how much you love each other! (I secretly hope my FH will cry but he's not an overly emotional person so probs not lol)

    Your pictures make me SO excited for my day!!!! 6 months!

    Congrats to your and your husband, may you have a wonderful and happy life together!

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  • KatieMBY
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    Yay only 6 months?! In wedding time, that FLIES by! I’m sure you’ll be there before you know it! And it’s funny, my husband isn’t emotional at all. It’s amazing that he even wrote a letter to begin with on our big day, lol! I’m sure y’all will have a stunning wedding and I can’t wait to see your BAM! Thank you so muchhhh ❤️
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  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
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    You are so welcome!!!! Super duper gorgeous! Smiley heart


    Omg, it already is so I totally agree! I'm so excited I can barely stand it- almost all of my major vendors have been booked (Except my cake, but I have an appointment for that on the 17th) so now it's all about the small details and shower planning (Which I'm incredibly excited for also!)

    I can see him tearing up a little, but we will see. I'd be surprised too if he wrote a letter! That's SO sweet of your Husband to do that for you, and seriously seeing the pictures of the reaction is just amazing and touching Smiley heart

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  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
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    Also, how did you go about the last dance? This is my first time really hearing about the idea. I had planned the big exit, but I like this intimate idea too. Did you just wait until everyone had left?

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  • KatieMBY
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    So we just had our coordinator move everyone outside the reception barn, which you can do if you have nice weather and depending on your venue. They stood watching us from the glass barn doors, and our photographer and dj were the only two still in the reception barn for the whole song. They turned the lights down and the music up! It was super romantic, I have to say lol. You can still do a big exit after this, but we chose to just walk out waving and holding hands.
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  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
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    Oh perfect, thank you so much!!!

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  • C
    Just Said Yes August 2018
    Courtney ·
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    LOOOVE IT ALL!!! Your wedding looked fantastic as did we everyone in it. You gave such great advice to us up and coming wives to be. May your lives together be long and full of bliss.

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  • H
    Dedicated June 2018
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    I love it!!! So beautiful and you look very happy!
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  • PrincessLawrence
    VIP June 2018
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    You look amazing! Thanks for all the tips as well!

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  • Haley
    Savvy June 2018
    Haley ·
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    Wow! Your wedding was gorgeous! Congrats on your day. I like the idea of the last dance!

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  • KarenO
    Master June 2018
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    Congrats! Everything looks beautiful and you do too! Hope your H has recovered from his ankle injury.

    Thanks for posting advice too - it seems like not a lot of brides are doing that in their BAMs anymore.

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  • KatieMBY
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    Thank you so much! I always used to find the advice brides posted so important, so I kind of wanted to bring that back since I also don’t see much of that in BAM’s anymore.

    And my H sort of has! He’s still recovering, slightly.
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  • ap2al
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    Aww I’m tearing up these are gorgeous! Congratulations Smiley laugh
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  • KatieMBY
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    Awww thank you! Hehe
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  • Bridget
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    Everything looks ridiculously gorgeous! can you plan my wedding please?! congratulations!

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