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Devoted November 2019

Processional Question - Divorce Central

Zoe, on July 3, 2019 at 5:07 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 9

I'm having issues figuring out who is going to be included in the processional. I'm having both my parents (divorced) walk me down the aisle so they are accounted for.

My FH's parents are also divorced, and his mother has remarried. I had planned for them to follow the officiant. The question then becomes who will walk with my FH's father who is not married. I was thinking his mother (FH's grandmother) but if we do that then I feel the need to include all grand parents who are (guess what) divorced, so that easily adds 3 more couples.

I know my FH's mother would be upset if she was not part of the processional (and I do think they should be involved), but adding in his parents easily adds 4 more couples. This is in additional to 11 bridesmaids and groomsmen.

Does anyone have this issue of an insanely long processional? Or advice as to where we could cut down to avoid half of the ceremony being taken up by people walking down the aisle?

Thank you!



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Latest activity by Courtney, on July 4, 2019 at 2:25 PM
  • Formerbride
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    Formerbride ·
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    FFIL walks alone. Did you ask FFIL if he would want to be in the processional?
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  • Z
    Devoted November 2019
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    He does - do you think that would look weird?

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  • Formerbride
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    Nope! No one will notice or care. It's over in a flash! Don't get too overwhelmed. Smiley smile
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  • Z
    Devoted November 2019
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    GAH thank you - I needed to hear that haha

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    My fiance is walking his mother down the aisle, she will walk back out by herself. His father is walking in & out with his stepmother. My father will walk me in, then back out with his girlfriend. My mother will walk in & out with my stepfather. I think having people walk in alone is fine, but also adding 3 more couples isn't a huge deal and doesn't take very long since it's quick anyway. I typically see grandparents included in that.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    He’s a grown man, he can probably manage to get himself down the aisle.
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  • Jennifer
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    Have any married, or dating, parents accompanied by their Significant Other.
    This will avoid hurt and resentful feelings- especially from the "Steps".

    The addition of grandparents is is not an issue, and your Father could walk in on one side of his mom & her "new" husband on the other...

    Remember the people are waiting to see YOU, and FH face as he sees you! The rest of the people are just there to make you and FH happy lol
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  • Cheryl
    Expert November 2020
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    Ha! I agree. Or let him decide.
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
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    What about having your FFIL walk in with your fiancee with the groomsmen following?

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