It’s always interesting to read about different social circles and customs. One thing I have noticed in various forums is kids are either accepted or shunned with no middle ground. And there’s the idea that it’s offensive to many parents to pick and choose because the message is sent that “these kids are important to us, those are not” which may work for some groups who may not care what guests think but others don’t tolerate it. Most people will never say a word to the couple if they are upset so it’s not right for the couple to assume everyone is ok with the decision. While some groups see kids as automatic invites because it’s a family event for them, others see kids as a nuisance. One thing I keep reading though is that the consensus is that all kids everywhere are disruptive and the older teens who socialize by themselves or with adults are more of a problem than unsupervised toddlers or babies who can’t help crying. The only time I personally have seen disruptive children is when the parents don’t care about their children, teaching them how to behave in public or disciplining appropriately. I’ve never come across misbehaved children at a wedding that do any of the typical things you hear about but I’m sure they exist, though that varies by family and social circle.
Those who are inviting kids, what is your demographic? Are they babies/toddlers only and older teens asked to stay home or is everyone allowed a spot to celebrate?
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